If Africans use it, I'm not as concerned (they black, so ... There are certain dynamics that go along with that) ...
Actually, when anybody uses it, in all circumstances, you have to be the psychoanalyst... Where is the person's reference point? When you find that, things become less emotional, in theory :)
"Are they using it to make me angry and they think that's my trigger?"
"Are they just trying to be down, not really understanding the history behind it ?"
I shared this story before .. walking in Sao Paolo mall, when I see a barbershop called "Niggaz" (interestingly enough, I would meet an Afro-Brazilian, that I am still good friends with, so maybe there was something to the name ) ...
Not that we have a monopoly on the word, but I realized then how influential Black American culture is ...
Most Africans that use it, I would think that the use comes from following popular culture ... They don't really understand the history behind it ....