The Cookout

[lexodyssey]

I'm kind of on the fence about it. If you connect, but the situation isn't right, that doesn't make you less compatible with the person. I can also see why people don't believe in it and say the right person at the wrong time is the wrong person. Either way, I don't think it's healthy to dwell on it and wait for the right time with that person because that time may never come. What do you think?

 

[Jay]

There can absolutely be cases where it’s the right person at the wrong time. Think about the longest relationship you’ve ever been in and how your emotional and mental state was after the breakup. I was an emotional and mental wreck after breaking up with my son’s mom and I had to rebuild myself in a lot of ways. There were many women I dated in that time and some were nice women but I wasn’t emotionally or mentally ready to let them in my life. I needed to heal and get over my baggage before I could be a righteous and true man.

 

[Caprice]

I'm kind of on the fence about it. If you connect, but the situation isn't right, that doesn't make you less compatible with the person. I can also see why people don't believe in it and say the right person at the wrong time is the wrong person. Either way, I don't think it's healthy to dwell on it and wait for the right time with that person because that time may never come. What do you think?

I don’t believe in it. If they are the right person then you’ll figure out a way to make it the right time. Some things are just not meant to be.

 

[Troy]

I don’t believe in it. If they are the right person then you’ll figure out a way to make it the right time. Some things are just not meant to be.

How can you make it work if your mind ain't right. You might just end up making another jaded person trying to make it work when you screwed in the head.

 

[Caprice]

How can you make it work if your mind ain't right. You might just end up making another jaded person trying to make it work when you screwed in the head. Then it’s not meant to be.

How can you make it work if your mind ain't right. You might just end up making another jaded person trying to make it work when you screwed in the head.

Then it’s not meant to be.

 

[Jay]

Then it’s not meant to be.

I look at luck as Opportunity + Preparation…

Some relationships are Opportunity + Not Prepared….

It could have meant to be but you was tore up…you had the opportunity but not the preparation. It not being meant to be is a coping mechanism to deal with the loss.

my 0.02

 

[Invincible1914]

I absolutely met the right person at the wrong time. It was the wrong time for me cause I was too stupid to know what the right person should look like. Typical men growing up slower than women stuff.

But it worked out cause there was an even more right person out there waiting for me.

 

[Jay]

I absolutely met the right person at the wrong time. It was the wrong time for me cause I was too stupid to know what the right person should look like. Typical men growing up slower than women stuff.

But it worked out cause there was an even more right person out there waiting for me.

That’s a beautiful story bruh. Sometimes life doesn’t give a second chance at love.

 

[Invincible1914]

Then it’s not meant to be.

I really don’t know the answer to this. Just talking to old head and listening to advice and life experience. I’ve heard someone say it hurts when the man pull it together too late. I was out here talking to another guy at church… He said he actually asked his wife (now she’s his wife) why she stuck with him when he was it was clear he was having some issues. She said she just knew.

I guess there are things that come up where we aren’t going to always have the answer.

 

[Red Velvet]

I look at luck as Opportunity + Preparation…

Some relationships are Opportunity + Not Prepared….

It could have meant to be but you was tore up…you had the opportunity but not the preparation. It not being meant to be is a coping mechanism to deal with the loss.

my 0.02

Great way of looking at it. It's why you need to always be the best "you" that you can possibly be.

 

[Goldilocks]

I believe in not being prepared when a good opportunity comes your way. Most people today wouldn't even know how to treat a good man or woman.

 

[Bruh Man]

I believe in not being prepared when a good opportunity comes your way. Most people today wouldn't even know how to treat a good man or woman.

facts thats why you always gotta be ready and grateful. a lot of my homies didnt find out they had a good woman until she was gone.