Do they choose to or is it these low down men out here not handling their business?Children should come after. As a woman I don't understand why a woman would choose to be a single parent.
Women make the choice to get in bed with these men though. Don't just let some random dude with a slick tongue have his way. This is what pisses me off about women these days, no offense to you, but women out there blaming men when they are the ones letting them slide in and out of their beds without so much as a handshake. Easy women make these men more prevalent. If you want a man who respects you, you have to respect yourself first.Do they choose to or is it these low down men out here not handling their business?
If you aren’t married it’s a choice.Do they choose to or is it these low down men out here not handling their business?
Low down?Do they choose to or is it these low down men out here not handling their business?
End thread.I don't think it really matters; I honestly think it depends on the 2 people creating the baby. If you have the resources and maturity to bring a life in this world and take care of it and raise it, you don't need a piece of paper to validate that.
It’s not the end of a thread. People don’t make solid commitments for a reason. The “I can leave whatever I want without consequences” option is there to exercised and usually is.End thread.
But just because you’re married doesn’t mean someone is committed to you. How do people have kids in countries that don’t have marriages? Are they unable to figure out how to commit to one another because they didn’t stand in front of an old man holding a Bible asking you if you want to be with your partner forever? Marriage is a ceremony and financial arrangement.It’s not the end of a thread. People don’t make solid commitments for a reason. The “I can leave whatever I want without consequences” option is there to exercised and usually is.
Im on both sides marriage is just a show but it does symbolically represent that you in it for the long haul. Don’t mean it’s true but that’s the purpose. But niggas out here doing it cause the box good and split up.But just because you’re married doesn’t mean someone is committed to you. How do people have kids in countries that don’t have marriages? Are they unable to figure out how to commit to one another because they didn’t stand in front of an old man holding a Bible asking you if you want to be with your partner forever? Marriage is a ceremony and financial arrangement.
I am talking about the culture we live in. What people do on the other side of the world is completely irrelevant. People in this culture play house because they want the opportunity to leave whenever they want.But just because you’re married doesn’t mean someone is committed to you. How do people have kids in countries that don’t have marriages? Are they unable to figure out how to commit to one another because they didn’t stand in front of an old man holding a Bible asking you if you want to be with your partner forever? Marriage is a ceremony and financial arrangement.
I don't understand it either. I see a lot of ladies flaunting it on social media especially on Facebook about being a single mother and all I can say was that their mistake of having unprotected sex caught up with them and they decided to keep the baby.Children should come after. As a woman I don't understand why a woman would choose to be a single parent.
I know this is a traditional mindset and one that I have held since my teens. I never wanted to have children before marriage and I did a good job of making sure it didn't happen. That being said, what are your thoughts don't he subject? I know marriage is not a foolproof standard that will ensure nothing ever happens to your relationship but I feel like people are more inclined to work out their differences if kids come after.
Marriage indeed is a financial arrangement, a merger of 2 parties (man and woman) that results in a stronger conglomerate.But just because you’re married doesn’t mean someone is committed to you. How do people have kids in countries that don’t have marriages? Are they unable to figure out how to commit to one another because they didn’t stand in front of an old man holding a Bible asking you if you want to be with your partner forever? Marriage is a ceremony and financial arrangement.
I have to agree with Jay. It is more important that you can properly care for and provider a stable environment. My first daughter was not planned. Once we knew my wife was pregnant I knew I had 8 months left to get my sh*t together.No, kids should come after you and your partner both know that you can provide a stable and consistent environment for the children to grow. An environment with emotional, mental, financial, and physical stability that can produce adults that self-aware, self-sufficient, and a net positive to society. I don’t care what you marital status is if you can do the above. I know a married couple living in the biggest house on the block but they have the worst relationship which resulted in kids with major emotional issues.
scariest moment of my life was driving home from the hospital with a newborn in the backseat. i took a REAL deep breath before I started the engine.I have to agree with Jay. It is more important that you can properly care for and provider a stable environment. My first daughter was not planned. Once we knew my wife was pregnant I knew I had 8 months left to get my sh*t together.
I had to help my baby watch her baby today because she was so exhausted and needed to hit the bed. Before now, she thought that kids should come immediately, however, she has a different opinion now. She even advises that I take my time and be prepared before having one.
You had to help your baby watch their baby and you baby says that you should take your time before having a bad
I think kids should come when both partners are mentally, physically, spiritually, emotionally and financially ready.
A lot goes into having a baby, I had to help my friend watch her baby today because she was so exhausted and needed to hit the bed. Before now, she thought that kids should come immediately, however, she has a different opinion now. She even advises that I take my time and be prepared before having one.
My friend I mean
You had to help your baby watch their baby and you baby says that you should take your time before having a baby?
Be ready, that's all. Financially, mentally, physically & spiritually.
You had to help your baby watch their baby and you baby says that you should take your time before having a baby?
Yeah. I feel like kids should come after marriage.I know this is a traditional mindset and one that I have held since my teens. I never wanted to have children before marriage and I did a good job of making sure it didn't happen. That being said, what are your thoughts don't he subject? I know marriage is not a foolproof standard that will ensure nothing ever happens to your relationship but I feel like people are more inclined to work out their differences if kids come after.
As someone who had married parents that were dysfunctional I would prefer happy and healthy rather than married.Yeah. I feel like kids should come after marriage.
This is a fair point. Two married people being parents in an unhealthy marriage can be damaging to a child being raised in that environment. Sometimes, people just should be having kids together.As someone who had married parents that were dysfunctional I would prefer happy and healthy rather than married.
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