The Cookout

[BrotherMoocobamn]

I'm a contractor doing an emergency maintenance call just to change the door lock and I walk into literally a crime scene young black people hold the black people specifically FBA men and women fighting each other is definitely not the way learn from this......

 

[Red Velvet]

OMG it is never worth staying. I don’t care if I have to file bankruptcy to leave.

 

[GwynShivers]

I'm a contractor doing an emergency maintenance call just to change the door lock and I walk into literally a crime scene young black people hold the black people specifically FBA men and women fighting each other is definitely not the way learn from this......

I really hate this! We've had WS & Anti-Blacks trying to eliminate us for nearly 500 years!
To see our Black young adults & teens bringing bloodshed to each other, instead of procreation, really makes me sick, as well as angry!

 

[sourgrapes]

The white nationalists of this country have turned people against their own. You see it within so many groups of people in America but it hurts none more than black Americans. I hear so many stories of men and women getting into physical fights over nonsense, blood being shed, cops getting involved (making things even worse!). Most of the time it is people around my age or younger and it breaks my heart. This is why we need to take back control over our youth. Teach them to work together and take back what was stolen from us.

 

[GwynShivers]

The white nationalists of this country have turned people against their own. You see it within so many groups of people in America but it hurts none more than black Americans. I hear so many stories of men and women getting into physical fights over nonsense, blood being shed, cops getting involved (making things even worse!). Most of the time it is people around my age or younger and it breaks my heart. This is why we need to take back control over our youth. Teach them to work together and take back what was stolen from us.

First, we ALL need to get ourselves in order. Mind, body & soul! We can't assist others, if we're messed up internally! 💯

 

[Sapphire]

There is a local spot that helps with domestic abuse for black women. I can't remember what it is called. We need more spots like this. Even if they are throwing punches, a man can easily kill a woman with one punch. If they feel they have nowhere to go and nowhere to take shelter, they stay in these positions for months or even years.

 

[Rollie Forbes]

OMG it is never worth staying. I don’t care if I have to file bankruptcy to leave.

THIS.

 

[Devin]

This is a very sad scenario, and this happens a lot more times than most people would think. There are many different reasons as to one a significant other would stay in an abusive relationship. I won't go into the details because I feel as if the reasons are pretty self explanitory. I'm sorry that you had to encounter this, I hope everything ends up working out for them and one decides to leave.

 

[Jay_Judah202]

I'm a contractor doing an emergency maintenance call just to change the door lock and I walk into literally a crime scene young black people hold the black people specifically FBA men and women fighting each other is definitely not the way learn from this......

It's far too common. I know so many FBA women in mutually abusive relationships. I think some people are addicted to that chaos because they go from one tumultuous relationship to the next.

 

[Sapphire]

I had a friend in my teens who was getting abused. I had no idea until the mf'er backhanded her with me in the other room and she hit the ground. I was shocked. She never told me or even showed signs of it. Sadly, a lot of women hide this stuff and hide it well. It is heartbreaking.