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Ever dated a boss or someone higher up?

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I have never attempted to date someone who was my boss or was higher up than me. I have had a couple female bosses that I was interested in, but never tried to make a move. And if I did, I probably would have been fired, let's be honest. But, have you ever had a relationship with someone who happened to be your boss or someone higher up than you?

How did it go? Did it result in anyone losing their job? Did you break up and lose your job? What happened?
 

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I feel like this is a good way to make things hella awkward at work. Before I became a nurse, I was working at a small retail shop and I was crushing on one of my managers. I know he was feeling me as well but I come to find he was married and I quickly threw cold water on that. Would have gotten messy real fast if I let the flirting carry on.
 

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    Nope but definitely messed with peers and subordinates…will never do that again. You be walking around the office wondering when HR is going to call you into the office.

    Walking Egg GIF by Magician Edzus
     

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    I feel like this is a good way to make things hella awkward at work. Before I became a nurse, I was working at a small retail shop and I was crushing on one of my managers. I know he was feeling me as well but I come to find he was married and I quickly threw cold water on that. Would have gotten messy real fast if I let the flirting carry on.
    For sure. There was this one guy who dated his boss, and she ended up having to fire him a few weeks later. Was interesting.

    Several times and regret it.
    Any stories to share?

    Nope but definitely messed with peers and subordinates…will never do that again. You be walking around the office wondering when HR is going to call you into the office.

    Walking Egg GIF by Magician Edzus
    Oh yeah. Did you guys have to watch any training videos about workplace relationships? Most of the jobs I applied for required us to watch these cringy work training vids, and they warned a lot about dating co-workers. Felt like if anything did go wrong, I would be the one to lose my job.
    Nah but I had a fine ass Black manager I wanted to sex up so bad. She was so mean I just would have loved to see her in a submissive state. Neva happened.
    Hit her up now if you aren't working there. shaqoneal
     

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    For sure. There was this one guy who dated his boss, and she ended up having to fire him a few weeks later. Was interesting.
    You can't date someone at work who is a higher level than you or you will always run the risk of this. There isn't much you can do about it either, especially not as a guy.
     

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    For sure. There was this one guy who dated his boss, and she ended up having to fire him a few weeks later. Was interesting.


    Any stories to share?

    One boss took me to a sex party that her HUSBAND was throwing. I swear to god, I did not know black folk, particular in the professional + retired set were into that, but that really opened my eyes.

    it was at some McMansion out near Desoto in Texas. at least 20-30 people from my recollection. It was....different and kind of uncomfortable. But man! Them women were something else. I kept it cordial with the brothers there, nobody was on no creep or weirdo shit, and the respect was genuinely mutual.

    another boss affair was a little more average...sex in the parking lot before work. nothing special. But her supervisor ended up getting knocked up by some guy who was only at the job for about a month snoopdisappointmentusher laugh

    there's more, I'd tell, but i gotta call for work.
     

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    One boss took me to a sex party that her HUSBAND was throwing. I swear to god, I did not know black folk, particular in the professional + retired set were into that, but that really opened my eyes.

    it was at some McMansion out near Desoto in Texas. at least 20-30 people from my recollection. It was....different and kind of uncomfortable. But man! Them women were something else. I kept it cordial with the brothers there, nobody was on no creep or weirdo ish, and the respect was genuinely mutual.

    another boss affair was a little more average...sex in the parking lot before work. nothing special. But her supervisor ended up getting knocked up by some guy who was only at the job for about a month snoopdisappointmentusher laugh

    there's more, I'd tell, but i gotta call for work.
    Man I gotta hear the rest of this l!!’
     

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    Man I gotta hear the rest of this l!!’

    The sexy party one was just wild bro. This was my boss at a company I was working for at the time, and I made a joke and the convo just casually got into the realm of sex, stuff we'd do and what not. now mind you, she simply said it's an "adult party" and that I should dress light. I ain't never been to something like that. As a function, it well put together and coordinated, wasn't no BS. Women were bad. Dudes wasn't being thirsty. It wasn't like folk was walking around ass naked, you had to have robe/pajama like clothing on if you weren't in a room.

    There was champagne, henny, platters of crackers and cheese, the living room was basically the kick it spot.

    But them rooms? Man, look, would put them porn videos to shame what went on in them man. It was also a even amount of men and women so it wasn't like you was assed out. Some dudes was clearly on them X pills through.

    let's just say I smashed some of the baddest women in my life, this was about eight years ago.

    I went to another in Vegas, but it wasn't the same, and that's when I realized I was done with it. It was really run and gun thing. chicks were from L.A./Vegas/Florida and they were decent, but the police got called cause somebody overdose on Coke and ketamine.

    The parking lot boss was cool. Jazzy broad. I was in my 20's when this went down. She was at least 15 years older than me, but that backside thorough?

    BROTHER!

    Only reason I got to smash her was I made a move and asked her out for a drink after work. See her supervisor was a cool chick too, but she liked her dudes a little more on the rough side, but not outrigh thuggish if you know what i mean.

    So we'd go out for drinks, maybe once a week. Then we got to kissing. then the next day she hit me up and wants to drop me off at work but tells me to get up an hour earlier. Man, it's something about smashing a woman in a car that ain't yours and you ain't got to worry about any clean up haha.

    I still got her on facebook, but i'm rarely on it
     

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    The sexy party one was just wild bro. This was my boss at a company I was working for at the time, and I made a joke and the convo just casually got into the realm of sex, stuff we'd do and what not. now mind you, she simply said it's an "adult party" and that I should dress light. I ain't never been to something like that. As a function, it well put together and coordinated, wasn't no BS. Women were bad. Dudes wasn't being thirsty. It wasn't like folk was walking around ass naked, you had to have robe/pajama like clothing on if you weren't in a room.

    There was champagne, henny, platters of crackers and cheese, the living room was basically the kick it spot.

    But them rooms? Man, look, would put them porn videos to shame what went on in them man. It was also a even amount of men and women so it wasn't like you was assed out. Some dudes was clearly on them X pills through.

    let's just say I smashed some of the baddest women in my life, this was about eight years ago.

    I went to another in Vegas, but it wasn't the same, and that's when I realized I was done with it. It was really run and gun thing. chicks were from L.A./Vegas/Florida and they were decent, but the police got called cause somebody overdose on Coke and ketamine.

    The parking lot boss was cool. Jazzy broad. I was in my 20's when this went down. She was at least 15 years older than me, but that backside thorough?

    BROTHER!

    Only reason I got to smash her was I made a move and asked her out for a drink after work. See her supervisor was a cool chick too, but she liked her dudes a little more on the rough side, but not outrigh thuggish if you know what i mean.

    So we'd go out for drinks, maybe once a week. Then we got to kissing. then the next day she hit me up and wants to drop me off at work but tells me to get up an hour earlier. Man, it's something about smashing a woman in a car that ain't yours and you ain't got to worry about any clean up haha.

    I still got her on facebook, but i'm rarely on it
    Don't you like that more than sliding up in an alley and buying?