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Funny, but there is some truth/game/modern dating ish in all this

RCNAL

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The interesting thing I saw is that even though a few of them had a man they were willing to give up the digits. Now, I tend to think becuase its a woman. They wouldn't if it was a guy saying the same thing. Also, just my guess, its more difficult for a woman to say no to another woman than it is to say no to a man. Women, can you comfirm? I'm guessing.

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I think this depends on how the guy looks. A creepy looking guy can say the exact same thing in the same manner and told off.

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    When a man approaches me my guard is automatically up because 99% chance he wants sex. If he looks like Shabba my guard is all the way up, if he looks like Idris my guard is at the lowest it can be if even up at all.

    In the scenarios I would not give my number to the woman because my guard would have went up when she came on to me. She would have became Shabba ranks to me after asking me out. But I would give my number to the man if I felt he was attractive.
     

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    I am not into ladies at all like that so the second I get vibes a woman is hitting on me or flirting with me, I will be kind about it at first but if she is pressing, then I will straight up tell her to go look for someone else cause I don't swing that way. I have no issue telling a woman no. I will be nicer about it at first but I do this with men too if I am not interested.
     

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    When a man approaches me my guard is automatically up because 99% chance he wants sex. If he looks like Shabba my guard is all the way up, if he looks like Idris my guard is at the lowest it can be if even up at all.

    In the scenarios I would not give my number to the woman because my guard would have went up when she came on to me. She would have became Shabba ranks to me after asking me out. But I would give my number to the man if I felt he was attractive.
    You're right about most men wanting sex whenever they approach a lady. The only difference from one man to another is when they are going to come out open for it. So, it's a good thing to have your guard up at all time at 99% even if he never said a thing. If I'm a lady, I'm definitely doing that till I see how his first impressions comes out, then I'd decide on giving him my number.
     

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    I am not into ladies at all like that so the second I get vibes a woman is hitting on me or flirting with me, I will be kind about it at first but if she is pressing, then I will straight up tell her to go look for someone else cause I don't swing that way. I have no issue telling a woman no. I will be nicer about it at first but I do this with men too if I am not interested.
    You said it perfectly. I’ll go from:

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    I have had like one or two experiences with ladies where I was never bothered about asking for their digits. Our friendship usually gets to the point where they would query if I never care about getting their contact details. As far as I'm good with the space we are talking on, I'd not care about ask phone digits.
     

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    Most ladies feel cool when interacting with other ladies than when a guy is in the picture. You will always see the difference in all of that. So, to me, a woman refuses to give her digits to a man, just know that the attraction level is low and she doesn't want to have anything do with him.
     

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    Most ladies feel cool when interacting with other ladies than when a guy is in the picture. You will always see the difference in all of that. So, to me, a woman refuses to give her digits to a man, just know that the attraction level is low and she doesn't want to have anything do with him.
    This is very true for most ladies. They are moved easily by what they see and it's why would be either eager or slow to respond to any guy's advances towards them for anything. I watched a few video skits some days a ago where a guy would ask some ladies to rate his dressing on 1-10. The one's that rate him up to 8 always says they would date a guy who dressed like him when he asked.