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Have you ever cheated?

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I think we can all say at the very least the thought crossed our minds. The last boyfriend I had, I never cheated on him even though he treated me badly and gave me plenty of reasons to do so, including planning hookups with his married friend's wife. They never did anything and he said he was doing it to boost his ego. Yeah, okay. I still think he cheated but I could never prove it. I am the type of person that would feel too guilty to go through with it so I never did. I have considered it but never could bring myself to do it.

Have you ever cheated on a partner of yours? If so, what was your reasoning?
 

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I used to cheat all the time until fate caught up with me and I found my long time girlfriend sleeping with my coworker. Now I didn’t catch them in the act but I looked through her phone and saw the messages. That’s when I realized I had an issue and need to change my ways. I was cheating on her left and right and it made me suspicious of her and so I would start going through her social media, her browser history, all types of shit and then finally found what I was looking for. I had to charge it to the game.
 

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If you count in elementary school, sure. I was maybe 10, and I was dating this one girl for about a few days or so, and then I saw another girl I liked more and started to talk to her. We kissed and the girl I was dating, saw it and never talked to me again.

Anyway, in terms of recent relationships, I had one where I considered cheating, but I decided to just break up with her instead. I'm the type that if I do consider trying to get to know someone else, I will break it off with the woman I am dating at the time. I'm always under the mentality, that if you are thinking of cheating, just break up with the person you're dating. At that point, I don't feel like there is love there.
 

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No I've never cheated. I would feel too guilty and it would eat me up inside. If it ever gets to that point, I feel like that means its time for the relationship to end.
Same. I mean I am a horrible liar on top of it so I would have the guilt pushing through and I would likely look guilty 24/7. I would end up having to confess. It is just better to end the relationship at that point.
 

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    I used to cheat all the time until fate caught up with me and I found my long time girlfriend sleeping with my coworker. Now I didn’t catch them in the act but I looked through her phone and saw the messages. That’s when I realized I had an issue and need to change my ways. I was cheating on her left and right and it made me suspicious of her and so I would start going through her social media, her browser history, all types of ish and then finally found what I was looking for. I had to charge it to the game.
    You’re a hoe.