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Have you ever dated someone crazy?

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Have you ever dated someone who was crazy in any way? Or maybe they were different, or had weird quirks. I dated this one girl when I was in college. She was awesome in the beginning, but as we started to date more and more, I started to see signs of severe anger. Like she would get mad at the drop of a hat. One night when we were hanging out, we got to talking about life and our future. She mentioned wanting to have kids, and I let it out that I don't know if I'm ready for that. She was visibly mad at this point and started to yell at me.

I wanted to spend my life with her, but her mood swings really messed with me. And I couldn't keep up with her.
 

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    Have you ever dated someone who was crazy in any way? Or maybe they were different, or had weird quirks. I dated this one girl when I was in college. She was awesome in the beginning, but as we started to date more and more, I started to see signs of severe anger. Like she would get mad at the drop of a hat. One night when we were hanging out, we got to talking about life and our future. She mentioned wanting to have kids, and I let it out that I don't know if I'm ready for that. She was visibly mad at this point and started to yell at me.

    I wanted to spend my life with her, but her mood swings really messed with me. And I couldn't keep up with her.
    That sounds terrible, I was in a similar situation but now I pay child support.

    I went through the whole dating a narcissist ticket to hell.
    • Intense Love Bombing
    • Building Rapport w/your friend and family
    • Removing you from everyone close to you
    • Plunging the relationship into chaos and destruction
    • Have you walking on egg shells
    • Give you love to refill your energy tanks
    • Plunge right back into chaos
    Never again.
     

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    I once did she was kinda weird had a few dogs and was overly obsessed with them and man those dogs we're scary idk if she trained them to run off people and pin them down or but those Rottweilers were crazy ass smart and horrifying.
    Bruh those dogs are born to be scary. You better be great full they didn't rip you a part.
     

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    Luckily I've never been serious with anyone crazy. A few guys showed their craziness before it ever got too far. I've seen it happen with friends where they go all in and end up in serious trouble with kids and everything involved.
    You can usually see it early on when someone isn't going to work. Thankfully most of my relationships have resulted in me bouncing when I noticed any signs of problems. I don't want to deal with a bad relationship. Better to end it before it goes anywhere.

    I once did she was kinda weird had a few dogs and was overly obsessed with them and man those dogs we're scary idk if she trained them to run off people and pin them down or but those Rottweilers were crazy ass smart and horrifying.
    Dog mom's can be crazy weird. I dated a dog mom for a few weeks, and I was not a fan of her constantly focussing her time on her dogs. Just felt like she had more time for them than I, so I ended that fast.

    Rottweilers are pretty great dogs, but they can be scary haha. They can be trained to do a lot I heard.
     

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    If you've never dated a crazy person I can most certainly guarantee that somewhere in the multiverse there is someone answering this question and the crazy person they are speaking of is YOU! Yes I've frollicked with crazies; the days were great, nights were phenomenal, the weeks were torture. Me now:

    music video cross GIF
     

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    If you've never dated a crazy person I can most certainly guarantee that somewhere in the multiverse there is someone answering this question and the crazy person they are speaking of is YOU! Yes I've frollicked with crazies; the days were great, nights were phenomenal, the weeks were torture. Me now:

    music video cross GIF
    Oh I'm sure some of my crazy exes are talking mad shit about me on the web somewhere too. I don't care anymore though honestly. So many have talked about me on social media in the past, that I just block my exes and move on. It's easier said than done, because I don't know how many times I've went back on my exes pages to see what was up. But that's no good, so I just block em and move on as best I can. Better to block crazy than let it eat away at ya.
     

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    I’m quiet and my cut off game is flawless. Quiet girls like me tend to attract the crazies.

    nialonglaugh
    All of my exes have been stalkers - I hate relationship drama.

    I can’t stand being in the presence of anyone for a prolonged period of time therefore, I already know that I am neither relationship or marriage Material. I am totally comfortable with that. I live in my own reality of self sufficiency.
     

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    I’m quiet and my cut off game is flawless. Quiet girls like me tend to attract the crazies.

    nialonglaugh
    All of my exes have been stalkers - I hate relationship drama.

    I can’t stand being in the presence of anyone for a prolonged period of time therefore, I already know that I am neither relationship or marriage Material. I am totally comfortable with that. I live in my own reality of self sufficiency.
    You just haven’t met your match yet.
     

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    Looking back yeah . Cause when we first met she talked to me first but who she was with that should have made me think about her choices in company
    Man whoever said hindsight is 20/20 never lied. It's like you saw her talking to 3 crackheads but didn't put 2 + 2 together.