That's more like living with and extended family. I will feel cooked up in that kind of house even if I had my own room, it wouldn't be enough to give me peace and relaxation.
That was my plan too. However, I grew to dislike even numbers! So i changed my target to five. I am at 20%! I was hoping to hit my target before leaving the 4th floor. Wish me luck :-)
Ikr:-) Wasn't the plan but I thank God for every one:-)
Wow you have one of those old school families.
Damn girl you been BUSY! haha
4-6 is good. It gives you some breathing room if you happen to have one that is determined despite all your guidance to hop on the coon train.
You damn right!! But my wife and I have cultivated indoctrination tools in the house. My daughter already has the Black Authority's intro memorized and she is only 3. All she knows is black owned media outside of her learning cartoons. But hell im going to get her gifted and lit pretty soon here.
Bruh my son is about to turn 7 and he zaps my energy. He is a talker and he talks all day and it destroys me as an introvert. My home is supposed to be where I recharge but I have my son one week on, one week off and I be so drained sometimes.
That's the thing, I don't mind that, that would be cool to know my kid(s) have the same interest as their father and I wouldn't mind teaching my kids what it means to be B1. Yeah i'm sure and have no doubt just one kid alone can be taxing and imagine 3 kids but still I wouldn't mind it.Bruh my son is about to turn 7 and he zaps my energy. He is a talker and he talks all day and it destroys me as an introvert. My home is supposed to be where I recharge but I have my son one week on, one week off and I be so drained sometimes.
“Dad what’s your favorite super hero”
“Dad who would win, sonic or Optimus prime”
“Dad are snakes smart”
I don't have a problem teaching them to be B1 or teaching them anything. It's that as a introvert I have to have my private time and sometimes it's tough for kids to understand that. I'm my son's superman so he wants to share every thought that pops in his head with me. Which I understand but I'm not built to be talked to all day.
I grew up in a family of 5 with my parents and 3 siblings. We didn't live with our father constantly as he always travels for business trips and comes back once in 3 to 5 months.
I don't think that the government is going to charge you to court for having 100 children. What they are going to do would be take away the kids from you and put them in foster care homes when you can't take care of them.
That's tremendous to hear, I'm pleased with your answer. Because I love kids and I want to have more, because my parents have birth to plenty of us and I have to replicate such too. I wouldn't born to abandon for anyone taking care of them, I'll work hard to provide their primary needs of life including secondary when the need arises.
The pandemic has taught me a lesson. Less is more! I would rather have a number that i can manage. For me 2 is a handful already, but i would go with that! Anything more than that will make me run mad! Things are tight right now. And i wouldn't want to get "self-induced stress".
That goes for everything.This pandemic showed me a lot of folks had too many kids they can't care for or afford. Two is plenty, none in these difficult times is best. Less is more until things get better.
My father will always hammer it in my ears that it's better not to have kids at all than to give birth to kids that you can't take care of their responsibilities. It's going to be shame on your family legacy.
😂😂😂😂 that's that female energy imbalance when boys spend more time around women than men. When I was the only woman in the house I'd be good to get a grunt sometimes. Boys are different, but I notice boys who grow up free of lots of women are very different from the ones who grow up very chatty women in their families. Hopefully you're able to restore and find peace when you're free.Bruh my son is about to turn 7 and he zaps my energy. He is a talker and he talks all day and it destroys me as an introvert. My home is supposed to be where I recharge but I have my son one week on, one week off and I be so drained sometimes.
“Dad what’s your favorite super hero”
“Dad who would win, sonic or Optimus prime”
“Dad are snakes smart”
Sure, that's why I'll work hard to stand tall in order to fend for their primary needs. If by any means, I fail to provide for their needs, then I wouldn't give birth to plenty to avoid child abuse.
