The Cookout

[Boss Hog]

This short video sums it up real nice.

If you see a dude stepping to your shorty it's on her to dismiss him. If you can't trust her to dismiss him then you either have to figure out why you're insecure or bush her. It's that simple, no need to fight, argue or anything like that.

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ktbzb34PQTQ&t=43s


It's good to see some rational sound advice in this world of manosphere goofies and lames.

Have yall even had someone flirt with your lady?

 

[Blackgravity]

This is common knowledge, Most Brothas won't disrespect another man by trying to get at his female especially if he knows she's with someone. There are exceptions though, and yes if your girl doesn't know how or simply wont put a dude in check, something is wrong.
Pimps on the other hand.. they are that exception. I've been around enough of them to see how they move, if they can peel another nigga they will in a heartbeat.

 

[Sovereign]

I can’t lie. When I was younger I would feel self-conscious when dudes would look at my lady but now I take it as confirmation of her beauty.

What changed my mindset was a couple relationships ago when I cheated. I was unsatisfied, my needs were not being met and my girl at the time didn’t care to listen and so I stepped out.

Two ladies after her, I had this baddie but she was thick headed she was the type of single mom JASON Black talks about on the Business. She wasn’t meeting the standard I was setting so I left her instead of cheating.

So what does all this have to do with the OP? Well I learned that you have to make sure you’re giving your partner what they need. If your lady is satisfied, she isn’t going to be paying those dudes any mind.

But remember, you have to make sure she is able to be satisfied by what you offer. If there is an internal void there, she has to satisfy that herself.

 

[Jay]

I can’t lie. When I was younger I would feel self-conscious when dudes would look at my lady but now I take it as confirmation of her beauty.

What changed my mindset was a couple relationships ago when I cheated. I was unsatisfied, my needs were not being met and my girl at the time didn’t care to listen and so I stepped out.

Two ladies after her, I had this baddie but she was thick headed she was the type of single mom JASON Black talks about on the Business. She wasn’t meeting the standard I was setting so I left her instead of cheating.

So what does all this have to do with the OP? Well I learned that you have to make sure you’re giving your partner what they need. If your lady is satisfied, she isn’t going to be paying those dudes any mind.

But remember, you have to make sure she is able to be satisfied by what you offer. If there is an internal void there, she has to satisfy that herself.

Glad you matured. I never had an issue with it and like I take it as a compliment. My lady knows where her bread gets buttered so if she wants to leave it's on her. I just make sure I hold her down, make sure her needs are met, listen, and keep pushing us forward and she gon' check niggas on her own.

The thing is that you ain't always around...if she gon' cheat, she gon' cheat.

 

[SIXDIMENSIONS]

This short video sums it up real nice.

If you see a dude stepping to your shorty it's on her to dismiss him. If you can't trust her to dismiss him then you either have to figure out why you're insecure or bush her. It's that simple, no need to fight, argue or anything like that.

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ktbzb34PQTQ&t=43s


It's good to see some rational sound advice in this world of manosphere goofies and lames.

Have yall even had someone flirt with your lady?

Good luck spreading that word. mf's will blow your scalp off about they OLE LADY.lol

 

[SIXDIMENSIONS]

Good luck spreading that word. mf's will blow your scalp off about they OLE LADY.lol

When I was Georgia that was the vibe I felt.

 

[Rex Lawrence]

My first girlfriend was the most beautiful girl in the world. We had dated since 8th grade, but only kissed a few times, she was what used to be called "a good girl". She was admitted to CalArts dance program, but washed out when they decided that she didn't have a "ballet body".

When she returned home she and I had sex within the hour. Two weeks later we moved way out to Seattle to live together.

Every week some guy would try to take her from me. I was low on cash, and seemed like an easy target. Once this guy with a beautiful condo on Volunteer Park invited us over for a BBQ. We already knew his plan.

He and I got into a debate of sorts. After a few minutes my girlfriend interrupted and told him in French to leave me alone and I was hands off for him. He understood her and was completely deflated.

That is the best way to deal with guys expressing interest in your girlfriend. She does the shutting down.

 

[Boss Hog]

Good luck spreading that word. mf's will blow your scalp off about they OLE LADY.lol

What does that have to do with the thread?

 

[Boss Hog]

My first girlfriend was the most beautiful girl in the world. We had dated since 8th grade, but only kissed a few times, she was what used to be called "a good girl". She was admitted to CalArts dance program, but washed out when they decided that she didn't have a "ballet body".

When she returned home she and I had sex within the hour. Two weeks later we moved way out to Seattle to live together.

Every week some guy would try to take her from me. I was low on cash, and seemed like an easy target. Once this guy with a beautiful condo on Volunteer Park invited us over for a BBQ. We already knew his plan.

He and I got into a debate of sorts. After a few minutes my girlfriend interrupted and told him in French to leave me alone and I was hands off for him. He understood her and was completely deflated.

That is the best way to deal with guys expressing interest in your girlfriend. She does the shutting down.

If she isn't shutting it down then you are seeing the person who is going to take you woman from you.

 

[Devin]

This is the best advice I've ever heard regarding these types of situations. I know a ton of people who allow their emotions to get in the way of their relationship because of a third party. I believe it's okay for others to flirt with my girl, but there are boundaries that can't be crossed. If you try to touch my girl or physically get hands-on, I may get upset and lose my temper. As long as my girl's loyalty is in the right place, I have no issues. If she begins flirting back with another male, that's when we may run into some issues, and I may have to find someone else.