The Cookout

[Deleted member 231]

As some of ya'll know, I live in Snore-Cal and everything up here is topsy turvy. Half the kids in these public schools are playing dress up and doing the whole pronoun game. I've been ruminating a lot on these parents up here (all of em PC). Anyway, the trendy thing up here is these 150,000 dollar millionaires with too much time on their hands doing anything and everything to procreate. Two lesbian couples I know of had to get their brother to provide the swimmers to get that egg poppin. Another neighbor is married to a guy who doesn't want to spread his seed, she went and got someone else's egg and got it ovulated by someone else, then they impanted the egg into this gal. So now this couple is going through the whole process and eventually are going to deliver this kid and raise it as if shares the same DNA as them.

Questions aside about how this will affect the kid later on to find out their uncle is really their dad, or their parents aren't really their parents; I often wonder sometimes when kids are being their worst if being our offspring is the last barrier to them getting strangled for their behavior. People say that you can love someone you raise as your own like your own, but I think that's bull. Half the reason I don't hit my kid is because he looks just like me. And he has done some crazy stuff to push my buttons. I didn't realize how much patience I had until I had a kid. But I don't think its an accident that there are so many horror stories around kids (2-3 years old) being fatally beaten. If you can't manage your own emotions you can find yourself saying some stuff you know you shouldn't be saying to a child. Not everyone should have kids, and sometimes nature has a way of telling us that. But all those mornings of getting up at 2, 3 in the mornign to get a bottle or whatever felt like a biological obligation. I'm probably alone, but I know if there were no DNA shared between me and my son......things would be a lot different as far as how I treated him. I would be fair, but I wouldn't love him the same. Am I bugging?

 

[Kanu]

wo lesbian couples I know of had to get their brother to provide the swimmers to get that egg poppin. Another neighbor is married to a guy who doesn't want to spread his seed, she went and got someone else's egg and got it ovulated by someone else, then they impanted the egg into this gal.

Are black people involved in this mess or just cacs?

 

[Deleted member 231]

you know the answer to that lol its rampant up here

 

[GwynShivers]

As some of ya'll know, I live in Snore-Cal and everything up here is topsy turvy. Half the kids in these public schools are playing dress up and doing the whole pronoun game. I've been ruminating a lot on these parents up here (all of em PC). Anyway, the trendy thing up here is these 150,000 dollar millionaires with too much time on their hands doing anything and everything to procreate. Two lesbian couples I know of had to get their brother to provide the swimmers to get that egg poppin. Another neighbor is married to a guy who doesn't want to spread his seed, she went and got someone else's egg and got it ovulated by someone else, then they impanted the egg into this gal. So now this couple is going through the whole process and eventually are going to deliver this kid and raise it as if shares the same DNA as them.

Questions aside about how this will affect the kid later on to find out their uncle is really their dad, or their parents aren't really their parents; I often wonder sometimes when kids are being their worst if being our offspring is the last barrier to them getting strangled for their behavior. People say that you can love someone you raise as your own like your own, but I think that's bull. Half the reason I don't hit my kid is because he looks just like me. And he has done some crazy stuff to push my buttons. I didn't realize how much patience I had until I had a kid. But I don't think its an accident that there are so many horror stories around kids (2-3 years old) being fatally beaten. If you can't manage your own emotions you can find yourself saying some stuff you know you shouldn't be saying to a child. Not everyone should have kids, and sometimes nature has a way of telling us that. But all those mornings of getting up at 2, 3 in the mornign to get a bottle or whatever felt like a biological obligation. I'm probably alone, but I know if there were no DNA shared between me and my son......things would be a lot different as far as how I treated him. I would be fair, but I wouldn't love him the same. Am I bugging?

View: https://youtu.be/skNzBQc3Uok

Check out this footage. This NEVER gets old. Was happening then & still going on today.

 

[GwynShivers]

Are black people involved in this mess or just cacs?

The few that are financially stable, yes. The fertilization process isn't cheap. I'm thankful for the old fashioned way. No egg freezing, swopping or anything else. Just making good love with the ONE you love & creating life from that love.

 

[Jay]

but I know if there were no DNA shared between me and my son......things would be a lot different as far as how I treated him. I would be fair, but I wouldn't love him the same. Am I bugging?

Think about if on this very day you found out your lady cheated and your son was not yours would that bond, affection, camaraderie, and etc disappear? All the good times, bad times, hard times, the times he said he loved you…would it all mean nothing? I’ve thought about it and I would not change my 50% custody of my son if I found out something like this. I would instantly want out of the child support but I would continue to raise him as my own as he did not create the situation and shouldnt be punished for it. I think you can develop a protective instinct for kids that are not biologically yours. If yiu had to raise your sibling‘s kids would you treat them as others and screw them up mentally? You son gets lunchables and they get the 99 cent store ones?

 

[Deleted member 231]

Think about if on this very day you found out your lady cheated and your son was not yours would that bond, affection, camaraderie, and etc disappear? All the good times, bad times, hard times, the times he said he loved you…would it all mean nothing? I’ve thought about it and I would not change my 50% custody of my son if I found out something like this. I would instantly want out of the child support but I would continue to raise him as my own as he did not create the situation and shouldnt be punished for it. I think you can develop a protective instinct for kids that are not biologically yours. If yiu had to raise your sibling‘s kids would you treat them as others and screw them up mentally? You son gets lunchables and they get the 99 cent store ones?

lol. Its hard to imagine cuz the boy look just like I did when I was his age. But i get what you're saying. I'm not saying I would treat him differently, but I would feel different. it wouldn't be the same. The love I have for my son eclipses any other love I've had for any human being or object. That's my mans. and part of that is DNA related. I feel his pain when he's upset or hurt. But I know I wouldn't feel the same if we weren't related. I would still be loving and fair. But it would be different. I just can't imagine a woman carrying around a fetus in her body that had no DNA relation to either her or her partner. Yea you can love the kid like you would love anything else. But I just think when its your flesh and blood, it hits differently...not better....just different. It might never be said or expressed, but I think instinctively everyone feels it. I know of people who grew up with adopted parents who were overtly treated differently, but that's not what I'm talking about. As someone who had step parents on both sides, I was never treated unfairly....but I could sense the difference. That being said, there is this little black boy at my son's daycare who I found out his parents are white. They let this boy come to school with no socks on with this low 50's high 40 degree weather. Every time I see him, I ask him where his socks are. I'm ready to call CPS on these white folks for sending him to school like that. Last week, I subbed for a class at this middle school and the only black kid (not sure of their sex/gender)in class was wearing some goofy sweatshirt and acting a bit off... I looked down at their shoes and they weren't wearing socks. Guess what conclusion I drew from that? California is a cesspool, especially in these parrts

 

[Bruh Man]

lol. Its hard to imagine cuz the boy look just like I did when I was his age. But i get what you're saying. I'm not saying I would treat him differently, but I would feel different. it wouldn't be the same. The love I have for my son eclipses any other love I've had for any human being or object. That's my mans. and part of that is DNA related. I feel his pain when he's upset or hurt. But I know I wouldn't feel the same if we weren't related. I would still be loving and fair. But it would be different. I just can't imagine a woman carrying around a fetus in her body that had no DNA relation to either her or her partner. Yea you can love the kid like you would love anything else. But I just think when its your flesh and blood, it hits differently...not better....just different. It might never be said or expressed, but I think instinctively everyone feels it. I know of people who grew up with adopted parents who were overtly treated differently, but that's not what I'm talking about. As someone who had step parents on both sides, I was never treated unfairly....but I could sense the difference. That being said, there is this little black boy at my son's daycare who I found out his parents are white. They let this boy come to school with no socks on with this low 50's high 40 degree weather. Every time I see him, I ask him where his socks are. I'm ready to call CPS on these white folks for sending him to school like that. Last week, I subbed for a class at this middle school and the only black kid (not sure of their sex/gender)in class was wearing some goofy sweatshirt and acting a bit off... I looked down at their shoes and they weren't wearing socks. Guess what conclusion I drew from that? California is a cesspool, especially in these parrts

Nigga if the kid ain’t mine I’m dropping that Nigga off at his moms got his shit packed and ready to go.

“It was a cool 7 years my man, I will never forget them…best of luck in life”

 

[Deleted member 231]

Nigga if the kid ain’t mine I’m dropping that Nigga off at his moms got his shit packed and ready to go.

“It was a cool 7 years my man, I will never forget them…best of luck in life”

I could be a mentor!!! Then one day he could write a rap song about me like shaq did his stepdaddy

 

[Bruh Man]

I could be a mentor!!! Then one day he could write a rap song about me like shaq did his stepdaddy

“Hey call me anytime champ your moms a hoe btw”

 

[Deleted member 231]

“Hey call me anytime champ your moms a hoe btw”

he would get game off the rip from that one piece of information.

 

[Bruh Man]

he would get game off the rip from that one piece of information.

Strap up
lil Nigga.

 

[SIXDIMENSIONS]

Are black people involved in this mess or just cacs?

LOL.You know the answer.I seen an ad looking for surrogate moms in the hood. Just a couple of bands.No more than like 30 for everything.

 

[SIXDIMENSIONS]

People need to stop playing they self.There is NO substitute for the Nuclear Family. If you are attempting anything else willfully You are being selfish and DUMB. And that step dad ish aint real. I done had one and tried to play one. The black community always include that bs. The Bradys didnt say they were step brother and sisters. People will argue you down talking about how nuclear families are outdated. Thats retard talk.

 

[Deleted member 231]

People need to stop playing they self.There is NO substitute for the Nuclear Family. If you are attempting anything else willfully You are being selfish and DUMB. And that step dad ish aint real. I done had one and tried to play one. The black community always include that bs. The Bradys didnt say they were step brother and sisters. People will argue you down talking about how nuclear families are outdated. Thats retard talk.

that's the thing. People act like there aren't serious consequences for this.

 

[Ubiquity]

I was speaking to my gay(maybe bi) friend who has recently had a baby naturally, but she's demonizing the father, what's so surprising to me- on chicken headery! I had the same questions/sentiment as the author of this post. This baby shares genetic information with this man and his family that as a mother she cannot account for. It isn't fair, that someone who isn't familiar with the traits and tendencies to write the small nuances off as typical human behavior!

My brother talks it up like nobody, but my father and this is a trait directly from my father regardless of my father not seeing my brother since he was 2/3 years old. I really wish my brother would let the abandonment issues go and speak to this man and get out my ear with the BS, but unfortunately I've gotta deal with 2 over-yolked talkative mfs! Its amazing how these little idiosyncrasies are passed on, but genes are still vastly misunderstood!

..let's not forget Kamiyah Mosby(so) out of FL/NC. She looks like she belong to her father all day and fell in almost without any estrangement! It sucks that she wasn't raised around/by him and I truly hope she moves passed her trauma.

I often wonder what the consequence will be for people who become aware that their parents bought and paid for donor eggs, donor sperm and a surrogate mother. Forget mail-order-brides, we are talking about humanity!