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The dad should've kicked all their asses, but he shouldn't have recorded it. Also, he should've made those boys delete all footage of his daughter prom their phones.
Side note, it's crazy that the little girl never dropped her phone while her dad was swinging at her. These kids today are different!
Side note, it's crazy that the little girl never dropped her phone while her dad was swinging at her. These kids today are different!
That was common here in the US, until the govt got involved in the post Civil Rights era. As I understand it he did do some talking & advising before this occurred. However it seems like she missed the part about who pays the bills, clothes, feeds, & is ultimately responsible for her well being. So he put foot in her A$$. Nothing 2 see here.
That's a black people thing globally regarding daughters. We all grew up with strict parents (better word is responsible) or seen it in neighbors or relatives. Africa and the Caribbean similar.
The difference between daughters raised right and not raised right.
Depending on the family the daughter physically hit and I'm not gonna judge either way. She knew better and was raised better. Seeing the dad's reaction tells me that. Plus 2 boys! Bad enough one but 2?
He gotta watch her close from now on or he may be a grandfather way earlier than he expected.
I also wanna know where moms at? Moms the one that should be schooling the daughter. The good moms I know could read the daughters easier because 1. They were that age once and know how they think and 2. It's her job to know. He doing moms job. She is the first line of defense, especially for daughters. If I was pops me and moms gonna have a chat.
The difference between daughters raised right and not raised right.
Depending on the family the daughter physically hit and I'm not gonna judge either way. She knew better and was raised better. Seeing the dad's reaction tells me that. Plus 2 boys! Bad enough one but 2?
He gotta watch her close from now on or he may be a grandfather way earlier than he expected.
I also wanna know where moms at? Moms the one that should be schooling the daughter. The good moms I know could read the daughters easier because 1. They were that age once and know how they think and 2. It's her job to know. He doing moms job. She is the first line of defense, especially for daughters. If I was pops me and moms gonna have a chat.
i don’t see anything wrong.
Beat that ass before someone else do it.
That's how the man of the house handle shit. No room for little hard legs roaming around. Everyone in the room would've gotten smoked out and I dare them to tell there parents or bring them back and it all gets handled in private. No need for social media the message will get across. ✊🏿💯
My step granddaughter has the gift of doing hair and the girl is a master braider, we have her loving money and not boys right now. She is soon to be 16 and I will fully pay for her to learn that trade once she is out of high school.
The girl is something else with her braiding skills. Maybe we can find a small building put a few chairs in there and boom she's in business. Plus her mama would indeed beat that ass if she walked in on some 💩 like this.
Nut recording all that then he uploaded it? Naw that is foul and boo koo creepy. What if the towel fell? The 2 little males would get a beating off top tho. Y'all know what I mean?
The girl is something else with her braiding skills. Maybe we can find a small building put a few chairs in there and boom she's in business. Plus her mama would indeed beat that ass if she walked in on some 💩 like this.
Nut recording all that then he uploaded it? Naw that is foul and boo koo creepy. What if the towel fell? The 2 little males would get a beating off top tho. Y'all know what I mean?
First off, that phone would have been destroyed and that's all I'll say. As for the boys, unless they disrespected me or my home, no harm done, just get out. The daughter allowed them to enter so I would make her solely responsible unless other facts came out stating otherwise. Would I record this, NO but I don't know the entire backstory.
Don't bring men inside my house if I'm not home. Even if a boy had a chance to come in to visit, you sit in the living room or a common area when I am at home. Boys didn't like coming to my house to see my daughters. That was my rule.
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I was trying to find. The movie where Jamie Foxx was taking Pretty Ricky's daughter out on a date, but I can't remember the movie title. That was my Dad, for real. 21 questions & then the line:
That is a solid plan. Not over bearing and no yelling. Either the familyroom (game room) or sitting in the living room. No bedroom chilling. My people didnt play that at all.