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She Says Men Need to Bring 200 - 400 on a Date

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    What do you think? I think these skeezers got the game twister messing with these simps and now they think everyone the same. I’d take her to outback the first night for $90 and see how she behaves. I’m bringing more tHan $200 but not for her. She can get a Victoria filet and a blooming onion on me.
     

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    Through my own perspective, a significant portion of this concubine (and previous) era they are merely attempting to physically paywall men for an outing with them. They basically want to give you the onlyfans experience (trick off) without having to do anything between consenting adults, this is where a faction of those Bidesexuals that were so hypervigilant about student loan debt come from (so they have to resort to guilt tripping men into paying for their meals). If anyone remembers last weeks, The Business broadcast, Jason Black broke down how women have higher standards of productively and compensation in men, as opposed to their female counterparts as well as themselves (see: 2-14-21, Alone on Valentine's Day? It's not ok & The Double Standards of Male Productivity ).
     

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    I will be real if you are out there expecting a man who is testing the waters to spend this much on you... You better be putting out and not expecting a call after. They want to act like high-class hookers they will get treated like some.

    If you are into someone, what they spend on the date does not matter - or at least it shouldn't. I would rather a dude spend within his budget and be smart with his money than piss it away on some overpriced meal.
     

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    I will be real if you are out there expecting a man who is testing the waters to spend this much on you... You better be putting out and not expecting a call after. They want to act like high-class hookers they will get treated like some.

    If you are into someone, what they spend on the date does not matter - or at least it shouldn't. I would rather a dude spend within his budget and be smart with his money than piss it away on some overpriced meal.
    Great point, if I'm really enjoying our time together and want to move forward (the money will be no object) and our time together will take us where we need to go.

    Example: I really like Axe Throwing, Rock Climbing and hiking (or Active Leisure activities) I tend to do one more than the others but when I get a chance to have a date that would want to try one of the three, I really enjoy it and I don't make a big deal about who pays.
     

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    I totally disagree with this. I don't think that a man should have to bring or spend $200 to $400 on a date. That's much obsurd. Does she realize how bad the economy is and how a lot of people are struggling? I feel like all she is in it for is the money. Unfortunately for her, it doesn't work this way. The only way she may get that kind of money is if she's working the streets lol. Good luck to her.
     

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    What do you think? I think these skeezers got the game twister messing with these simps and now they think everyone the same. I’d take her to outback the first night for $90 and see how she behaves. I’m bringing more tHan $200 but not for her. She can get a Victoria filet and a blooming onion on me.

    I don't appreciate these golddiggers making us all look bad!
    Back in my day, if I asked a guy out, I paid & that's just how I roll! Even now, if I see something I know that my husband would appreciate, I buy it!
    Not because it's a holiday or I expect something in return, but JUST BECAUSE! Showing my love & appreciation, period!
    #SkeezersGotTheGameTwisted
     

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    What do you think? I think these skeezers got the game twister messing with these simps and now they think everyone the same. I’d take her to outback the first night for $90 and see how she behaves. I’m bringing more tHan $200 but not for her. She can get a Victoria filet and a blooming onion on me.


    well that is the age of female empowerment

    I understand that men aren't owed sex, but then women aren't owed money either
    Funny thing is that she is probably paying for someone that don't have the money but is pleasing her sexually
    See it all the time
     

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    Shorty is hustling backwards. If she's legitimately trying to find a boyfriend/husband then she's going to possibly miss out on a good man because he didn't bring a bankroll with him (side note, that tackhead can't even pronounce "restaurant", she should be grateful to get an appetizer trio from TGI Friday's).
    On the flip side, if her goal is to hit a $200 lick instead of finding love, then she shouldn't be asking for a "date". She'd have a higher success rate if she was honest and told interested men that the price to blaze & glaze was $200. She could make a bunch of money & wouldn't have a reputation for being a sack chaser.

    View: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=vW2qi_V1gw8
     

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    Shorty is hustling backwards. If she's legitimately trying to find a boyfriend/husband then she's going to possibly miss out on a good man because he didn't bring a bankroll with him (side note, that tackhead can't even pronounce "restaurant", she should be grateful to get an appetizer trio from TGI Friday's).
    On the flip side, if her goal is to hit a $200 lick instead of finding love, then she shouldn't be asking for a "date". She'd have a higher success rate if she was honest and told interested men that the price to blaze & glaze was $200. She could make a bunch of money & wouldn't have a reputation for being a sack chaser.

    View: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=vW2qi_V1gw8
    That's exactly what she'd be, a $200 per male & or female sex sack chaser! One thing That's noticeable to me is, today's bag chasers have NO limitations! 💯
     

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    For $200, A Good F**k & A Good Dinner is Good Prostitution...
    hookers GIF by Tierra Whack
     

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    First date? Naw, I'm not blowing 200-400 on someone I barely know. If the main focus on a female's mind is how much you're going to spend on a date... It just shows how shallow she's is . If you're going to blow 400 might as well grab a good ass meal and hit a gentleman's club and get your money's worth.
    At least there you're getting what you pay for.
     

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    Her damn voice... And the way she talks... Fckn annoying!
    I'd be embarrassed forced her if I went to pick her up for a date, and she dressed like that...
    Females these days have no clue what "class" "poise" or grace means. Most of all self respect.
     

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    Through my own perspective, a significant portion of this concubine (and previous) era they are merely attempting to physically paywall men for an outing with them. They basically want to give you the onlyfans experience (trick off) without having to do anything between consenting adults, this is where a faction of those Bidesexuals that were so hypervigilant about student loan debt come from (so they have to resort to guilt tripping men into paying for their meals). If anyone remembers last weeks, The Business broadcast, Jason Black broke down how women have higher standards of productively and compensation in men, as opposed to their female counterparts as well as themselves (see: 2-14-21, Alone on Valentine's Day? It's not ok & The Double Standards of Male Productivity ).
    The simps enable this behavior. She’s had a few splurge on her and now she thinks it’s what her value is at. She is going to have a hard fall once she ages.
    I will be real if you are out there expecting a man who is testing the waters to spend this much on you... You better be putting out and not expecting a call after. They want to act like high-class hookers they will get treated like some.

    If you are into someone, what they spend on the date does not matter - or at least it shouldn't. I would rather a dude spend within his budget and be smart with his money than piss it away on some overpriced meal.
    Yes but when we demand sex from the exchange now we are the pig. The game is all types of twisted.
    I totally disagree with this. I don't think that a man should have to bring or spend $200 to $400 on a date. That's much obsurd. Does she realize how bad the economy is and how a lot of people are struggling? I feel like all she is in it for is the money. Unfortunately for her, it doesn't work this way. The only way she may get that kind of money is if she's working the streets lol. Good luck to her.
    She probably is already working the streets but the IG streets.
    I don't appreciate these golddiggers making us all look bad!
    Back in my day, if I asked a guy out, I paid & that's just how I roll! Even now, if I see something I know that my husband would appreciate, I buy it!
    Not because it's a holiday or I expect something in return, but JUST BECAUSE! Showing my love & appreciation, period!
    Black Panther Fist Bump GIF by Sky

    well that is the age of female empowerment

    I understand that men aren't owed sex, but then women aren't owed money either
    Funny thing is that she is probably paying for someone that don't have the money but is pleasing her sexually
    See it all the time
    Facts which is why I stick to my own agenda instead of getting myself caught up in the foolishness of modern women culture. I stay in my comfort zone and if that ain’t enough for her, she can skidaddle.
    Shorty is hustling backwards. If she's legitimately trying to find a boyfriend/husband then she's going to possibly miss out on a good man because he didn't bring a bankroll with him (side note, that tackhead can't even pronounce "restaurant", she should be grateful to get an appetizer trio from TGI Friday's).
    On the flip side, if her goal is to hit a $200 lick instead of finding love, then she shouldn't be asking for a "date". She'd have a higher success rate if she was honest and told interested men that the price to blaze & glaze was $200. She could make a bunch of money & wouldn't have a reputation for being a sack chaser.

    View: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=vW2qi_V1gw8
    She don’t sound like she is worthy love. She the smash and dash type she doesn’t even know it. When those breasts start to show the signs of prolonged exposure to gravity she will get hit in the face with that reality.
    First date? Naw, I'm not blowing 200-400 on someone I barely know. If the main focus on a female's mind is how much you're going to spend on a date... It just shows how shallow she's is . If you're going to blow 400 might as well grab a good ass meal and hit a gentleman's club and get your money's worth.
    At least there you're getting what you pay for.
    When she makes demands like that make one back. Aight ill put down $300 but we’re going back to my place to have sex afterwards, deal?
     

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    The simps enable this behavior. She’s had a few splurge on her and now she thinks it’s what her value is at. She is going to have a hard fall once she ages.

    Yes but when we demand sex from the exchange now we are the pig. The game is all types of twisted.

    She probably is already working the streets but the IG streets.

    Black Panther Fist Bump GIF by Sky


    Facts which is why I stick to my own agenda instead of getting myself caught up in the foolishness of modern women culture. I stay in my comfort zone and if that ain’t enough for her, she can skidaddle.

    She don’t sound like she is worthy love. She the smash and dash type she doesn’t even know it. When those breasts start to show the signs of prolonged exposure to gravity she will get hit in the face with that reality.

    When she makes demands like that make one back. Aight ill put down $300 but we’re going back to my place to have sex afterwards, deal?
    All she is is a Fuck N' Dump. There is a hashtag for broads like her. It's called #Fucendump

    She is some thing you fuck and then you dump simply because she is going to be spouting this nonsense afterwards. Naw, she is a public toilet, there for she belongs to the streets.
     

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    What do you think? I think these skeezers got the game twister messing with these simps and now they think everyone the same. I’d take her to outback the first night for $90 and see how she behaves. I’m bringing more tHan $200 but not for her. She can get a Victoria filet and a blooming onion on me.

    No need to be upset, you either got it or you don’t. At least you know what it is going to be if you take her out.
     

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    Yes but when we demand sex from the exchange now we are the pig. The game is all types of twisted.
    That is why you have to be on the same page. If you are just looking to get laid and a woman is looking for more, then yeah you will be considered a pig. If a man is looking for more and a woman is just looking for a fancy meal, she is just being a freeloader.
     

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    I'm married now so maybe things are different.

    But I'd say
    yeah, that's bull shit.
    When I was single I needed to bring that to the wedding ceremony. A mf can't demand sh*t of me unless she ready to bride up.

    Only thing anyone else gets was hard D and bubble gum!
     

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    I'm married now so maybe things are different.

    But I'd say
    yeah, that's bull shit.
    When I was single I needed to bring that to the wedding ceremony. A mf can't demand sh*t of me unless she ready to bride up.

    Only thing anyone else gets was hard D and bubble gum!

    They are delusional and they will end up lonely.

    If you live in an area where the cost of living is high I could see paying around $200 to $250 for a nice date. However, if I'm paying then I set the price cap. A lot of women don't value a man's effort if he doesn't spend a lot of money.
    You have to go out of your way though...you'd have to go to Ruth Chris, Mastros, etc or go clubbing and buy a bunch of drinks. You can take her to outback drop $90 and then go for a walk in the park.
     

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    Depends on where you live. $200-400 is reasonable for any date these days. If you can't afford at most $400 you shouldn't be dating.

    Girl, what? I’m in the top 10% of earners and $400 on a date to me is even absurd. Women say this online but in their day to day lives be settling for dates to Norms and Denny’s.
     

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    Ain't my problem actually, I wanna say a big good luck to the men who want to go out with her. It's even right they treat themselves well to a good date and a good date requires some good money too.
    I understand that money makes every relationship happy, but common, it shouldn't be on the first day we met, I can't spend up to $200 - $400 once to impress any woman.
     

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    If you live in an area where the cost of living is high I could see paying around $200 to $250 for a nice date. However, if I'm paying then I set the price cap. A lot of women don't value a man's effort if he doesn't spend a lot of money.
    Sounds like GOLDDIGGERS GALORE to me. If all you're after is the bag, you're bound to get dragged! 💯
     

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    Then become an escort

    I don't know if SHE'S worth that much, I'll leave that to y'all. But if the first thing you're talmbout on a date is money, I'm not taking you seriously.
    She ain’t worth that and she knows it. She probably was eating at Sizzler or Golden Corral earlier that day.
     

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    I wonder what happened with her footing the date's bill with her own money? If she comes to the date with $200-$400 will her name change from what it used to be?
    I tutored athletes in high school. If I liked you, I may ask you out, my treat. In some cases, it was Dutch. In my college years also. If I asked you out, I paid.
     

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    If a man has the budget to be spending this on a first date, the chances are he will be looking for higher quality women.

    I never understood being a hoe and expecting all men to worship you. If you are easy, why should any man put in any effort? Honey tastes sweeter when you work for it.
     

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    I understand that money makes every relationship happy, but common, it shouldn't be on the first day we met, I can't spend up to $200 - $400 once to impress any woman.
    My best advice is don't go above yourself trying to please any lady, because they aren't even going to remember what you did for them when you ain't together any more. Take care of your woman but don't go broke while trying.
     

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    My best advice is don't go above yourself trying to please any lady, because they aren't even going to remember what you did for them when you ain't together any more. Take care of your woman but don't go broke while trying.
    Very correct, I wouldn't go broke trying to please any woman man. I am trying so hard to avoid being a one day millionaire. I know how it is with my father, so, I'm trying to avoid such extravagant lifestyle of sprinkling money anyhow for a lady.
     

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    Girl, what? I’m in the top 10% of earners and $400 on a date to me is even absurd. Women say this online but in their day to day lives be settling for dates to Norms and Denny’s.
    1. I'm not a girl.
    2. I do not argue.
    I do not know what women you are referring to but I really don't have time to explain what I mean to anyone. I said what I said. If you do the math and you want to treat your woman well you need to be willing to put down that money. Have a great day Sir.
     

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    1. I'm not a girl.
    2. I do not argue.
    I do not know what women you are referring to but I really don't have time to explain what I mean to anyone. I said what I said. If you do the math and you want to treat your woman well you need to be willing to put down that money. Have a great day Sir.
    I'm reading these responses. All the defense is not needed. You should be more positive when you are responding. It's really not a good look to be so negative and hateful.

    So you're allowed to state your opinion but if people disagree they are being hateful and defensive? That sounds like a complex...