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Should Famous / Rich Men Record for Protection?

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When you are broke and you smash a girl, you rarely get accused of rape. This seems to happen to the brothers who either have a bright future (college athlete or top HS athlete) or are already famous and rich (Chris Brown, Bill Cosby, etc)

The recent not guilty verdict of the 2 former Ohio State football players false accused of rape. Michael Irvin falsely accused of sexual impropriety, Cosby, etc. if you are a black man who has money and / or famous and its the first time kicking with a woman, is it best to record it. Not show it to anyone, just record it in case there is an accusation? I keep all relevant text messages after I have sex with a woman for the first time. I've seen too much grimy ish via friends and an incident or two myself.

The conundrum is women don't want to feel they are being recorded and haven't consented to it. And would hate knowing if its normal for men to secretly record their interaction. Juxtapose that with men falsely accused and can't fight it and we all know if a black man with money and/or fame is accused there is a good chance he will go to jail just on her word with no proof.


2 Ohio State Players Ran A T-R-A-I-N on A Chick....And INSTANTLY REGRETTED IT!

College student falsely accused of rape speaks out

After 3 Decades, Exonerated After False Rape Accusation | Innocence Ignored
 

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    Nah Brothers just need to be disciplined in our sexuality and stop chasing females that mean us no good fucking everything moving ain't the lick. Choose who you procreate with carefully because if you're out here treating sex as a game you're gambling with your life in more ways than one.
     
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    True but can you tell every time? I totally agree if she's some random Becky at 3am and you are famous, don't even bother. But oen of the Cosby accusers was Black model Beverly Johnson (whose own agent said when she came back he didn't see or hear anything wrong).

    So, I'm ruling out the random 403s, but you are famous meet what seems to be a class sista. Says all the right things, no gully vibes, what then?

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    This why they have professionals.....I've heard current players talk about this I believe that's how Michael Irvin got caught up haggling over prices....(ALLEGEDLY)👀 that could also be viewed as "conduct unbecoming " dudes better start vetting these folks they have around them! My moms used to tell me "everybody ain't your friend!" I always kept my circle small. Moms ain't NEVA lied! ✊🏿
     

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    All men that are rich and famous, don't matter their skin tone, are targets for harpies looking to make money off them.

    I think they tend to go after black men though cause black men (athletes especially) will lower their standards for easy access. I have heard some stories of women taking condoms with them and trying to self-pregnate just to get that check. It is sick. Other shave accused of rape when they were cheating and making promises to leave their spouse. I think the biggest one in recent years was Kobe. His side piece was saying all kinds of nasty things about him.
     

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    When you are broke and you smash a girl, you rarely get accused of rape. This seems to happen to the brothers who either have a bright future (college athlete or top HS athlete) or are already famous and rich (Chris Brown, Bill iCosby, etc)

    The recent not guilty verdict of the 2 former Ohio State football players false accused of rape. Michael Irvin falsely accused of sexual impropriety, Cosby, etc. if you are a black man who has money and / or famous and its the first time kicking with a woman, is it best to record it. Not show it to anyone, just record it in case there is an accusation? I keep all relevant text messages after I have sex with a woman for the first time. I've seen too much grimy ish via friends and an incident or two myself.

    The conundrum is women don't want to feel they are being recorded and haven't consented to it. And would hate knowing if its normal for men to secretly record their interaction. Juxtapose that with men falsely accused and can't fight it and we all know if a black man with money and/or fame is accused there is a good chance he will go to jail just on her word with no proof.


    2 Ohio State Players Ran A T-R-A-I-N on A Chick....And INSTANTLY REGRETTED IT!

    College student falsely accused of rape speaks out

    After 3 Decades, Exonerated After False Rape Accusation | Innocence Ignored
    In their positions I would record. Anyone can switch up on you if they fall on hard times and need money.
     

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    In their positions I would record. Anyone can switch up on you if they fall on hard times and need money.
    Gold diggers & gigolos instantly prey on athletes & entertainers. Always have, always will!
    Our people better wake up & exile these bag grabbers from their presence!
     
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    This will be a radical and crazy position but, just....hang in there with me for a moment....If you're at the point where you feel you need to make a sex ta----Errr I mean "record" yourself in the act, to "protect" yourself, then maybe that's a red flag you should just keep it moving?
    I know, I know responsible behavior is such a struggle for people who's brain is between their legs as opposed to the rest of us who use the one between our ears.


    On a more serious note:


    As a legal professional giving my unofficial, unsolicited advice, from an ETHICAL position, recording broads you're fucking all in the name of "protection" is low key weird in the BEST of situations. It's high key creepy AF in the worst case. And that's without consent, I mean. If she consents, then it's all a wash and you don't need to worry about it. Judicially speaking, depending on where you live and who the Judge or arbitrator is, that vid very well may not even be admissable as evidence. So now either way you cut it, you just look like some kinky weirdo with a sex tape fetish.

    Usually, a more acceptable approach, ethically AND judicially, (although do be sure to check your state/local laws to confirm this) is to get out a VOICE recorder (almost every phone has one as a preloaded app), Ask the broad if she consents, save her response, and then keep that. Now you can continue to smash and you don't have to look like a fuckin creep who's trying to justify having and making a sex tape without consent.
     
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    HailCzr85
    a video yes. A voice recording with you asking and then getting consent and then STOPPING the recording after that's been established. No.
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    The whole paragraph is relevant not just that one piece

    As a legal professional giving my unofficial, unsolicited advice, from an ETHICAL position, recording broads you're fucking all in the name of "protection" is low key weird in the BEST of situations. It's high key creepy AF in the worst case. And that's without consent, I mean. If she consents, then it's all a wash and you don't need to worry about it. Judicially speaking, depending on where you live and who the Judge or arbitrator is, that vid very well may not even be admissable as evidence. So now either way you cut it, you just look like some kinky weirdo with a sex tape fetish.
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    I'll clarify, In a Video Recording, if there's no evidence that consent was given by the other party. It becomes a slippery slope for an attorney to defend the validity and use of the video. Again, it's going to depend on your state or local government, but in most cases, it makes the person recording look worse