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Some Of Our People Are Unwell

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Sad thing is, I have seen people like this in real life.


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Internalized racism is the learned form of prejudice we have towards people of different races or ethnicities. It is present in our thinking process and actions, and it can manifest in two ways:

  1. Internalized oppression: an assumed racial inferiority on the part of Blacks, Native Americans and other people of color.
  2. Internalized privilege: the assessment of racial superiority for white people
 

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There are plenty of black women who carry themselves well and don't act like an animal let off a damn leash. There is a BIG difference between a hoe looking for an easy life and a woman looking for a family/partner. If you look at nothing but hoes, that is a problem with you, not women. He clearly is looking at nothing but hoes. I hate when men do this.

This is actually something that has bothered me about social media. They never show wholesome black women. The ones working hard, being good mothers, taking care of their family and community. They show videos of hoes twerking in the street, ripping off each other's weave, and fighting over broke know nothing ass men. If you believe all black women are this way, you are a racist and ignorant to reality.
 

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I know a guy who says all the women in his family and every woman he has ever dated has been.. less than classy, and I get that... But to separate yourself and react this way is telling of the program y'all loaded up on.

My own folks told me over the holidays, that the world would not have advanced to where we are without white men... I almost choked! This same mf can find merit in being locked up in juvenile facilities and incarceration for young black men who cannot function within the parameters of American institutions. The wash is real and what comes out is always amazing, but sad!!
 

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    I dated a guy like that.
    Girl you must be a light brite.
    I know a guy who says all the women in his family and every woman he has ever dated has been.. less than classy, and I get that... But to separate yourself and react this way is telling of the program y'all loaded up on.

    My own folks told me over the holidays, that the world would not have advanced to where we are without white men... I almost choked! This same mf can find merit in being locked up in juvenile facilities and incarceration for young black men who cannot function within the parameters of American institutions. The wash is real and what comes out is always amazing, but sad!!
    Who the hell in your family said that? That’s the most coonish nonsense I ever heard all year. It would have taken everything to not throw a hot potato pie at them.
     

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    There are plenty of black women who carry themselves well and don't act like an animal let off a damn leash. There is a BIG difference between a hoe looking for an easy life and a woman looking for a family/partner. If you look at nothing but hoes, that is a problem with you, not women. He clearly is looking at nothing but hoes. I hate when men do this.

    This is actually something that has bothered me about social media. They never show wholesome black women. The ones working hard, being good mothers, taking care of their family and community. They show videos of hoes twerking in the street, ripping off each other's weave, and fighting over broke know nothing ass men. If you believe all black women are this way, you are a racist and ignorant to reality.
    It‘s just white supremacy crafting a narrative and people using it as an excuse to justify their racism. White supremacy is age, race, and culture agnostic. Anyone can be one like those fresh and fit coons.
     

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    Girl you must be a light brite.

    Who the hell in your family said that? That’s the most coonish nonsense I ever heard all year. It would have taken everything to not throw a hot potato pie at them.


    I was very upset too, but I have to take into account that he is also institutionalized from a very young age.. Even worse, is my kids cannot be around no sucka-ass mentality like that!!
     
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    How'd you get into something like that?
    We worked together first, which led to us spending time outside of work because we had a few similar interests. He quit the job we both worked at, and we started to escalate our dynamic. Over time, it became apparent he has mommy issues (his dad raised him and his mom moved out of state and left him here and started a while new family) and his dad married a non black woman and lived in a non black neighborhood. His whole life he's been the "token" for the pale faces. And ultimately lived an anti-black existence. But again, i didnt peep any of this until after we started dating. I am 100% certain I'm the first black woman he'd ever dated despite his claims that he dated black women before. It was a short lived ultimately unfulfilling connection and if I'm being honest, I'm using term "date" extremely loosely in this case.
     

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    He quit the job we both worked at, and we started to escalate our dynamic.
    "Escalated our dynamic". You pulled this right out of Jada's Dictionary of Entanglements.
    Over time, it became apparent he has mommy issues (his dad raised him and his mom moved out of state and left him here and started a while new family) and his dad married a non black woman and lived in a non black neighborhood. His whole life he's been the "token" for the pale faces. And ultimately lived an anti-black existence. But again, i didnt peep any of this until after we started dating. I am 100% certain I'm the first black woman he'd ever dated despite his claims that he dated black women before. It was a short lived ultimately unfulfilling connection and if I'm being honest, I'm using term "date" extremely loosely in this case.
    Oh ok that makes sense. Dad was a coon, dated a non-Black women who was cool with the cooning, and raised a coon son.
     

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    It‘s just white supremacy crafting a narrative and people using it as an excuse to justify their racism. White supremacy is age, race, and culture agnostic. Anyone can be one like those fresh and fit coons.
    It is stereotyping that was founded by white supremacists for sure. On the surface, people like to brush it off like it is no big deal and only "preferences" but this does a lot of damage, and people ignoring it and acting like these dudes spitting this nonsense is okay, they are foolish. This hurts the younger generations the most and the fact that you commonly see younger black men saying this stuff, it concerns me big time.
     
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    "Escalated our dynamic". You pulled this right out of Jada's Dictionary of Entanglements.
    Glad you liked it. This one is free. lol
    Oh ok that makes sense. Dad was a coon, dated a non-Black women who was cool with the cooning, and raised a coon son.
    Yes, Yes. Married a non-black woman, indeed she was as the non-black woman was PR and they only claim blackness when it's convenient and to dismiss the black american experience, and yes the fuck he did. Tragic.
     

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    Glad you liked it. This one is free. lol

    Yes, Yes. Married a non-black woman, indeed she was as the non-black woman was PR and they only claim blackness when it's convenient and to dismiss the black american experience, and yes the fuck he did. Tragic.
    It is easy to bury your head in the sand. Seeing shit for what it is and doing nothing means you have to accept being a coward.
     
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    It is easy to bury your head in the sand. Seeing shit for what it is and doing nothing means you have to accept being a coward.
    Indeed. And that's how his dad raised him. He's only black when it's convenient. And then his pale friends virtue signal(another reason things were short lived, i felt his friend were phony as hell. the term virtue signalling hadn't entered my vocab at the time) and he thinks all is ok because they "support" him and treat him like "everyone else"
     

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    Indeed. And that's how his dad raised him. He's only black when it's convenient. And then his pale friends virtue signal(another reason things were short lived, i felt his friend were phony as hell. the term virtue signalling hadn't entered my vocab at the time) and he thinks all is ok because they "support" him and treat him like "everyone else"
    that negro was fully tokenized. They had that nigga thinking he was “one of the good ones”. He’d hear some racist shit and be like “but they aint talking bout me i gets good grades and i speak so well billy tells me all the time”.
     

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    Juvie, jail and then prison. Supposedly jail and prison is two different kinds of lock-up.
    Yes. Jail is usually pre-sentencing and prison is afterward. Prison usually has more amenities and better food and I believe most jails are county operated and prison is state.
     
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    Yes. Jail is usually pre-sentencing and prison is afterward. Prison usually has more amenities and better food and I believe most jails are county operated and prison is state.
    That's possible too. However, R* has some of the best writers in gaming. They aren't going to waste all that talent and lose them to competitors when their 1st person campaign stories are consistently some of the greatest in gaming. It's wouldn't be smart baseball on their part. But I would agree in that, they won't do much in the way of prioritizing the campaigns if they are dropping a multiplayer element later on.
     

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    Does anyone here spend any time on TikTok? I was for a bit. I had to get off there. The type of nonsense you see people saying on there is insane. Similar to this. I see so many black apologists. If you are going to straight-up hate your own men or women, do us all a favor and just declare yourself a self-hating racist. I don't know where this crap started from but it is a problem that it is spreading. I feel like some of these people, there is hope for but others are too far gone. They were brainwashed with the lies of white media and white supremacy.
     

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    Does anyone here spend any time on TikTok? I was for a bit. I had to get off there. The type of nonsense you see people saying on there is insane. Similar to this. I see so many black apologists. If you are going to straight-up hate your own men or women, do us all a favor and just declare yourself a self-hating racist. I don't know where this crap started from but it is a problem that it is spreading. I feel like some of these people, there is hope for but others are too far gone. They were brainwashed with the lies of white media and white supremacy.
    I was on that joint for two weeks and quit, it’s a coon factory. I don’t know if it’s the algorithm or the people I just knew I couldn’t be on it. Not only that; the shit caters to shoe size IQ generation. Small, hot takes, on things with no logic required.
     

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    I was on that joint for two weeks and quit, it’s a coon factory. I don’t know if it’s the algorithm or the people I just knew I couldn’t be on it. Not only that; the shit caters to shoe size IQ generation. Small, hot takes, on things with no logic required.
    Maybe cause these younger people see a few takes for viral, they jump on? Like they are selling themselves out for internet fame. What scared me was how effortlessly they were saying what they were. Doing it for views or not, something deep inside them had to already been feeling a certain way. If they were that good at acting, they wouldn't be on TikTok is all I am saying!
     

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    Maybe cause these younger people see a few takes for viral, they jump on? Like they are selling themselves out for internet fame. What scared me was how effortlessly they were saying what they were. Doing it for views or not, something deep inside them had to already been feeling a certain way. If they were that good at acting, they wouldn't be on TikTok is all I am saying!
    I personally feel as many of them truly feel this way. I don't know your age but anyone 25 and below has basically been raised by social media and have been subject to non-stop echo chambers. If their parents did not ground them in Black empowerment then they will have been subject to a non-stop 24/7 barrage of anti-Blackness. All they are doing is adding to what they see in their day to day lives.
     

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    I personally feel as many of them truly feel this way. I don't know your age but anyone 25 and below has basically been raised by social media and have been subject to non-stop echo chambers. If their parents did not ground them in Black empowerment then they will have been subject to a non-stop 24/7 barrage of anti-Blackness. All they are doing is adding to what they see in their day to day lives.
    For real, you are probably accurate. I can't imagine growing up with this nonsense all around me. The algorithms and echo chambers are almost training the youth of today to hate their own heritage. I guess I was lucky enough to have my black parent be a prominent figure in my life. If you are a parent and you aren't making sure your children understand the roots of evil and anti-blackness in the US, you are doing a disservice to them.
     

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    For real, you are probably accurate. I can't imagine growing up with this nonsense all around me. The algorithms and echo chambers are almost training the youth of today to hate their own heritage. I guess I was lucky enough to have my black parent be a prominent figure in my life. If you are a parent and you aren't making sure your children understand the roots of evil and anti-blackness in the US, you are doing a disservice to them.
    We have to be steadfast in all aspects of our child's lives. We have to make sure they understand the landscape of an Anti-Black society so that they can grow up comfortable in their Blackness. For instance, if you didn't have a strong Black parent, something as simple as your hair would have been your worst nightmare. You would have been looking towards European standards of beauty as a guide and the first thing you want to alter was your hair. You would start putting chemicals in it to look like White people all because you weren't grounded in your Blackness. Lacking that foundation is devastating to us.
     

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    We have to be steadfast in all aspects of our child's lives. We have to make sure they understand the landscape of an Anti-Black society so that they can grow up comfortable in their Blackness. For instance, if you didn't have a strong Black parent, something as simple as your hair would have been your worst nightmare. You would have been looking towards European standards of beauty as a guide and the first thing you want to alter was your hair. You would start putting chemicals in it to look like White people all because you weren't grounded in your Blackness. Lacking that foundation is devastating to us.
    So many people have lost touch with their heritage and true culture and either end up stuck in a lifestyle designed to destroy them or they end up becoming a self-hating coon. Thankfully I am finding more and more people waking up.

    And for real, I would be a lost lamb! I don't think white women realize that even though I am half black, my hair still requires different care, styling, and maintenance. I always ask for black or bi-racial hairdressers for this reason. I do not let a pure white woman touch my hair.
     

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    So many people have lost touch with their heritage and true culture and either end up stuck in a lifestyle designed to destroy them or they end up becoming a self-hating coon. Thankfully I am finding more and more people waking up.

    And for real, I would be a lost lamb! I don't think white women realize that even though I am half black, my hair still requires different care, styling, and maintenance. I always ask for black or bi-racial hairdressers for this reason. I do not let a pure white woman touch my hair.
    Because it's the easy route. Think about it, cooning is easy AF. White people tolerate you more, you get to rise up the ranks of corporate America, and if you're like us, you're ostracized. We walk the hard paths the rough path, the path that makes you angry, the path that makes you want to fight, the path that asks you to be a coward or a fighter but nothing inbetween. This ain't for the faint of heart, we are the oppressed that we read about in text books in World History class.
     

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    Maybe cause these younger people see a few takes for viral, they jump on? Like they are selling themselves out for internet fame. What scared me was how effortlessly they were saying what they were. Doing it for views or not, something deep inside them had to already been feeling a certain way. If they were that good at acting, they wouldn't be on TikTok is all I am saying!
    The Honorable came in here and got him MLK on.

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    I will defer to him.
     

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    Because it's the easy route. Think about it, cooning is easy AF. White people tolerate you more, you get to rise up the ranks of corporate America, and if you're like us, you're ostracized. We walk the hard paths the rough path, the path that makes you angry, the path that makes you want to fight, the path that asks you to be a coward or a fighter but nothing inbetween. This ain't for the faint of heart, we are the oppressed that we read about in text books in World History class.
    You are right and I never really thought of it like that. All those rich white people love having themselves a token black person who is well-spoken and minds their manners. I bet it takes them back to the slave days. Sickos. I remember once reading about some famous white dude who was in the fashion industry. I can't remember the brand, but he straight up said he likes to have a "diverse portfolio of friends" like he is collecting m&ms or some sht.