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Touching Black Peoples Hair

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    You notice how in these conversations the one who always has to change their behaviors is the Black person? It's never "hey, the White kids need to learn boundaries and not run up and touch your hair" it's "you need to learn to like whatever treatment you receive".
     
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    "Be grateful that I'm flattering you and touching your hair. Because I can always call you a N1GGER and put you in your place instead."
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    You nailed it with that.

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    You notice how in these conversations the one who always has to change their behaviors is the Black person? It's never "hey, the White kids need to learn boundaries and not run up and touch your hair" it's "you need to learn to like whatever treatment you receive".
    Remember the movie COFFY? Let's just say after they grabbed a handful of razor blades, they NEVER touched me again, period!
     

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    Also, most white people don't ask. White girls will touch and ask at the same time. Or say 'Wow, your hair seems so interesting' WHILE touching it. Kids is one thing as well, adults another. She is overstating shit. In 1st and 2nd grade when kids of different races and ethnicities get together, they don't know sh*t. Its innocent childhood differences. She is conflating that with some white woman arbitrarily touching a black woman's hair.

    As I said, once in a bar overseas, in Asia, some white drunk boy felt froggish and palmed my head and said 'Hey bro', just automatically I grabbed his wrist and had my hand around his throat with a 'What the f*ck you think you doing?' He tried that 'huh? what? What did I do' thing and his peoples, who didn't want no smoke, came up and got him. I wanted to beat his ass, nerdy azz me, he wasn't about that life. He did there because he felt comfortable that there were no repercussions in a random expat bar, knowing good well, no matter where he was in America, even in an all white bar, he wouldn't even dream of it.

    They know. This sell out, knows it too and tries to conflate something kids do often with innocence up to a certain grade and what white folks been doing older when they know better.

    She is tryna be the new Candace Owens. And I notice she says a lot of stuff without anyone who can counter around. I've seen her among other people once and she chooses carefully. She will talk around goofy white folks who don't counter well. Not around no black folks. The average member on here would slice and dice her with her bullsh*t.
     
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    You notice how in these conversations the one who always has to change their behaviors is the Black person? It's never "hey, the White kids need to learn boundaries and not run up and touch your hair" it's "you need to learn to like whatever treatment you receive".
    Of course. Their reaction is so predictable.
     
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    Bootlicks eat it up too. She thinks she is so special.
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    Also, most white people don't ask. White girls will touch and ask at the same time. Or say 'Wow, your hair seems so interesting' WHILE touching it. Kids is one thing as well, adults another. She is overstating shit. In 1st and 2nd grade when kids of different races and ethnicities get together, they don't know sh*t. Its innocent childhood differences. She is conflating that with some white woman arbitrarily touching a black woman's hair.

    As I said, once in a bar overseas, in Asia, some white drunk boy felt froggish and palmed my head and said 'Hey bro', just automatically I grabbed his wrist and had my hand around his throat with a 'What the f*ck you think you doing?' He tried that 'huh? what? What did I do' thing and his peoples, who didn't want no smoke, came up and got him. I wanted to beat his ass, nerdy azz me, he wasn't about that life. He did there because he felt comfortable that there were no repercussions in a random expat bar, knowing good well, no matter where he was in America, even in an all white bar, he wouldn't even dream of it.

    They know. This sell out, knows it too and tries to conflate something kids do often with innocence up to a certain grade and what white folks been doing older when they know better.

    She is tryna be the new Candace Owens. And I notice she says a lot of stuff without anyone who can counter around. I've seen her among other people once and she chooses carefully. She will talk around goofy white folks who don't counter well. Not around no black folks. The average member on here would slice and dice her with her bullsh*t.
    100 percent right. They will touch then ask while doing so. I'm thinking/saying Bitch you already touched my damn hair. It is totally disrespectful.
     

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    A lot of kids aren't raised to know any better so I don't exactly fault the kids. If you go to a school where you are one of just 10 black students, and it is younger grades, you are going to get kids noticing you are different. The boundaries is what bothers me. Parents should be teaching their kids to be respectful of other people's spaces, especially those who are different from them.
     

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    She is lying that she was told it was racist as kids. She has a Nigerian father and white mother. Neither one is telling her that. It's all cap.

    She made it up to make a point. Think about it. I'd call on her BS right then and there if I was around her but she says BS with no counter and racist Jordan Peterson who said there is no such thing as white privilege co-signing on sh*t he has no idea about.
     

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    She was formerly BLM, had a tattoo. That alone tells me where she was. She wasn't B1. We all knew BLM the organization was on some other ish from jump and no one had a BLM tattoo or part of that. She was also a feminist, which also suggests she was not B1.

    Now that said, she had to have seen actual racism. Now that she is on the right, I'd like ot ask her 'So, is all the racism you saw when you were pushing BLM not racism?' and she says 'No' You can say 'Okay, what specifically is still racist even though you are on the right?' Make her name specific stuff. And if she says 'Yes, there was no racism'.
    You could respond "Really, Ben Shapiro, Larry Elder, and pretty much every other conservative still says racism exists but they will disagree on systemic racism'.

    Finally, I would say 'Aren't you doing the same thing you did when you were BLM? You said you saw racism in everything. Now you are denying racism in everything.'

     

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    Its hard to know if she's capping for money or truly believes. I think its a combination of both. As much as we think there is no money in fighting anti Blackness, there really isn't. If you are into to both fight racism and make money, the latter is gonna be tough. Yes, some people have gotten money like Tariq but generally speaking it doesn't pay. The money is in denying it. White conservatives pay big money for sell out blacks. White liberals got too many to choose from hence they got a line of blacks tryna get on CNN and MSNBC and can bid low.

    There are a whole lot of broke blacks (not a criticism) pushing pro blackness on youtube. The market is glutted. My feed will have some brotha usually once in a while sistas with under 1 or 2 thousand subscribers. Tons of them.

    I've never seen a black conservative on youtube who didn't have videos that didn't have over 10k views, and I'm low balling big time. Usually tens of thousands of views. Not saying there isn't but I haven't seen one. I look at numbers and who is getting what.

    If you are black and want views in racial / gender politics you 1. become a coonservative 2. if you are a woman be anti black male. 3. If you are male tell black women its all men's fault that you are 38, spent your 20s on your back and knees, put on 50lbs and hit the wall and turned down solid brothers.

    We do B1 for the right reasons. Money isn't it, if we make some great, it helps fund whoever gets that money to reach a wider audience (TBA, Tariq, etc) if not, we keep it pushing anyway. The above do it strictly for the money and out of self hate.