The Cookout

[Sapphire]

This was something I heard from a family friend. I thought the term was perfect. There are white dudes out there who go above and beyond to praise black women. They put them on a pedestal and make for inviting atmospheres where the ladies can feel good, empowered, strong, etc. even though they have no intention of ever dating them or even marrying them. It is almost like a giant virtue signal and a means to pat themselves on the back. Many of them are gay white men or married straight men who have white wives/gfs. They almost warm our ladies up to the idea of being with a white man. They get them to a place of doubt when they can't find a good black man (especially when these wench warmers are telling them they deserve better) so they start opening up to the idea of being with a white man. Many of these ladies who get warmed up end up with white men who fetishize them and walk them around like a trophy. It sickens me.

 

[Terrymist]

This was something I heard from a family friend. I thought the term was perfect. There are white dudes out there who go above and beyond to praise black women. They put them on a pedestal and make for inviting atmospheres where the ladies can feel good, empowered, strong, etc. even though they have no intention of ever dating them or even marrying them. It is almost like a giant virtue signal and a means to pat themselves on the back. Many of them are gay white men or married straight men who have white wives/gfs. They almost warm our ladies up to the idea of being with a white man. They get them to a place of doubt when they can't find a good black man (especially when these wench warmers are telling them they deserve better) so they start opening up to the idea of being with a white man. Many of these ladies who get warmed up end up with white men who fetishize them and walk them around like a trophy. It sickens me.

"Wench warmer". That term fits perfectly. I've also noticed that, it appears that they are planting seeds not only to make bw more receptive to wm, but to also undermine any black relationship.

 

[mamluke13]

This was something I heard from a family friend. I thought the term was perfect. There are white dudes out there who go above and beyond to praise black women. They put them on a pedestal and make for inviting atmospheres where the ladies can feel good, empowered, strong, etc. even though they have no intention of ever dating them or even marrying them. It is almost like a giant virtue signal and a means to pat themselves on the back. Many of them are gay white men or married straight men who have white wives/gfs. They almost warm our ladies up to the idea of being with a white man. They get them to a place of doubt when they can't find a good black man (especially when these wench warmers are telling them they deserve better) so they start opening up to the idea of being with a white man. Many of these ladies who get warmed up end up with white men who fetishize them and walk them around like a trophy. It sickens me.

Crazy like those bw who put Jack Harlow on a pedestal

 

[RCNAL]

One of the things I love about the FBA lineage push and the reparations push as well as the black empowerment space overall is that it makes dating outside your race socially unacceptable in the black community. A lot of celebs will lose black support in the future, especially the men. Same with NFL and NBA players. Don't get me wrong, black men have always dated Becky because there are just too many seeing them as the prize but the younger generation of black men, will start looking at sisters as the only option. The push will also make being dusty unfashionable. And brothers will be talking about being a producer. I got one former friend (long story...lol) who I am proud of because he moved into tech and is now making 90k out the gate. He did it specifically to be a producer. He was a Kevin Samuels listener (I know...I know) but he was told you can't complain making lower salaries and talking about wanting a cooperative dime.

Once the brothers get their act together in large enough numbers, sisters will act accordingly. I'm convinced of that. Everyone in that space is pushing black love now.

 

[RCNAL]

Dr. Umar's issues are obvious and well documented but the brotha pushes the line on dating. Gotta give him that.

View: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/K_KWDG8BNBU

 

[Sapphire]

"Wench warmer". That term fits perfectly. I've also noticed that, it appears that they are planting seeds not only to make bw more receptive to wm, but to also undermine any black relationship.

Oh for sure and you see this A LOT online. It is always some soy-infested white dude talking a sister up and making her feel good while throwing other women under the bus. Go to his profile and he is dating snow freakin white.

 

[RCNAL]

Tell a beautiful dark skin sista you love her complexion and she thinks its cap and you tryna game. Let a white boy do the same thing and she cheesing and blushing.

A brotha who gets flirted with by a sista at a happy hour bar, whatever, he's so so about it, unless she is banging, let an average Becky do the same and he's all over it.

We have been Stockholm Syndromed for 500 years to idolize people who not only don't look like you, have a history of subjugating you. The white comic Bill Burr (has a white wife) had a joke about white women saying they were oppressed and he was like y'all were right along with with white men when we were oppressing people, getting the benefits, now you're oppressed?

 

[Nesut]

Tell a beautiful dark skin sista you love her complexion and she thinks its cap and you tryna game. Let a white boy do the same thing and she cheesing and blushing.

A brotha who gets flirted with by a sista at a happy hour bar, whatever, he's so so about it, unless she is banging, let an average Becky do the same and he's all over it.

We have been Stockholm Syndromed for 500 years to idolize people who not only don't look like you, have a history of subjugating you. The white comic Bill Burr (has a white wife) had a joke about white women saying they were oppressed and he was like y'all were right along with with white men when we were oppressing people, getting the benefits, now you're oppressed?

Not all of us but it’s definitely accurate. We devalue ourselves which is why we think white people liking our music and dance is the coolest thing in the world. If we like, it’s whatever. If the like it, it’s a freaking spiritual experience.

 

[The Haze Of Our Lives]

This was something I heard from a family friend. I thought the term was perfect. There are white dudes out there who go above and beyond to praise black women. They put them on a pedestal and make for inviting atmospheres where the ladies can feel good, empowered, strong, etc. even though they have no intention of ever dating them or even marrying them. It is almost like a giant virtue signal and a means to pat themselves on the back. Many of them are gay white men or married straight men who have white wives/gfs. They almost warm our ladies up to the idea of being with a white man. They get them to a place of doubt when they can't find a good black man (especially when these wench warmers are telling them they deserve better) so they start opening up to the idea of being with a white man. Many of these ladies who get warmed up end up with white men who fetishize them and walk them around like a trophy. It sickens me.

Sounds good to me.

 

[mamluke13]

Tell a beautiful dark skin sista you love her complexion and she thinks its cap and you tryna game. Let a white boy do the same thing and she cheesing and blushing.

A brotha who gets flirted with by a sista at a happy hour bar, whatever, he's so so about it, unless she is banging, let an average Becky do the same and he's all over it.

We have been Stockholm Syndromed for 500 years to idolize people who not only don't look like you, have a history of subjugating you. The white comic Bill Burr (has a white wife) had a joke about white women saying they were oppressed and he was like y'all were right along with with white men when we were oppressing people, getting the benefits, now you're oppressed?

Those are white washed black people they hate themselves really and I noticed they always try to be in white spaces

 

[Terrymist]

Dr. Umar's issues are obvious and well documented but the brotha pushes the line on dating. Gotta give him that.

View: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/K_KWDG8BNBU

True, he has been consistent in that regard.

 

[Terrymist]

Tell a beautiful dark skin sista you love her complexion and she thinks its cap and you tryna game. Let a white boy do the same thing and she cheesing and blushing.

A brotha who gets flirted with by a sista at a happy hour bar, whatever, he's so so about it, unless she is banging, let an average Becky do the same and he's all over it.

That white validation is everything to them.

 

[Terrymist]

Those are white washed black people they hate themselves really and I noticed they always try to be in white spaces

I've also noticed that they will only like anything black as long as its approved by white people.

 

[Sapphire]

Anyone else watch the Boondocks? I know a few of you do! Uncle Ruckus is the perfect depiction of these types of people. They hate themselves so much and worship white skin. It is disgusting.

 

[Finesse]

Yeah I've seen how some white dudes act when a beautiful black woman is around. Half of them probably would never date/marry a black woman, but would for sure use her for sex and maybe even clout.

I'm sure there are some white men out there who do legit fall in love with a black woman, but I can see most white men just fetishizing them for the most part and wanting nothing but sex otherwise.

 

[equis]

Tell a beautiful dark skin sista you love her complexion and she thinks its cap and you tryna game. Let a white boy do the same thing and she cheesing and blushing.

A brotha who gets flirted with by a sista at a happy hour bar, whatever, he's so so about it, unless she is banging, let an average Becky do the same and he's all over it.

We have been Stockholm Syndromed for 500 years to idolize people who not only don't look like you, have a history of subjugating you. The white comic Bill Burr (has a white wife) had a joke about white women saying they were oppressed and he was like y'all were right along with with white men when we were oppressing people, getting the benefits, now you're oppressed?

This is so true! I'm sick of seeing how so many of our people swoon and pant like dogs waiting to get pat on the head when they get an opportunity to get recognition from whites. This behavior needs to be addressed. Any seeking of validation from white folks needs to be called out, because once one seeks validation from someone, they're automatically put in the position of a lesser.

 

[equis]

This was something I heard from a family friend. I thought the term was perfect. There are white dudes out there who go above and beyond to praise black women. They put them on a pedestal and make for inviting atmospheres where the ladies can feel good, empowered, strong, etc. even though they have no intention of ever dating them or even marrying them. It is almost like a giant virtue signal and a means to pat themselves on the back. Many of them are gay white men or married straight men who have white wives/gfs. They almost warm our ladies up to the idea of being with a white man. They get them to a place of doubt when they can't find a good black man (especially when these wench warmers are telling them they deserve better) so they start opening up to the idea of being with a white man. Many of these ladies who get warmed up end up with white men who fetishize them and walk them around like a trophy. It sickens me.

Wow, that beats anything I could've came up with. I love that term. Another thing I noticed about these wench warmers, is there's a lot of them that are just flat out alt-right white men who hate black men and love watching videos made by these hyenas that and co-sign anti-black male rhetoric. They're investing in the gender war and buying front row seats. Yet bed wenches ain't peeking game.

 

[Sapphire]

Wow, that beats anything I could've came up with. I love that term. Another thing I noticed about these wench warmers, is there's a lot of them that are just flat out alt-right white men who hate black men and love watching videos made by these hyenas that and co-sign anti-black male rhetoric. They're investing in the gender war and buying front row seats. Yet bed wenches ain't peeking game.

These types of dudes are the worst cause they will uptalk a black woman knowing she loves the attention irl and go home, go online, and just shit all over black men. Like they want us divided!

 

[B1 rebel 365]

This was something I heard from a family friend. I thought the term was perfect. There are white dudes out there who go above and beyond to praise black women. They put them on a pedestal and make for inviting atmospheres where the ladies can feel good, empowered, strong, etc. even though they have no intention of ever dating them or even marrying them. It is almost like a giant virtue signal and a means to pat themselves on the back. Many of them are gay white men or married straight men who have white wives/gfs. They almost warm our ladies up to the idea of being with a white man. They get them to a place of doubt when they can't find a good black man (especially when these wench warmers are telling them they deserve better) so they start opening up to the idea of being with a white man. Many of these ladies who get warmed up end up with white men who fetishize them and walk them around like a trophy. It sickens me.

Shouldn't it be wench groomers?

 

[B1 rebel 365]

One of the things I love about the FBA lineage push and the reparations push as well as the black empowerment space overall is that it makes dating outside your race socially unacceptable in the black community. A lot of celebs will lose black support in the future, especially the men. Same with NFL and NBA players. Don't get me wrong, black men have always dated Becky because there are just too many seeing them as the prize but the younger generation of black men, will start looking at sisters as the only option. The push will also make being dusty unfashionable. And brothers will be talking about being a producer. I got one former friend (long story...lol) who I am proud of because he moved into tech and is now making 90k out the gate. He did it specifically to be a producer. He was a Kevin Samuels listener (I know...I know) but he was told you can't complain making lower salaries and talking about wanting a cooperative dime.

Once the brothers get their act together in large enough numbers, sisters will act accordingly. I'm convinced of that. Everyone in that space is pushing black love now.

On slow bus at this junction and don't get the last sentence . . . 'cooperative dime' ? 🤔

 

[B1 rebel 365]

One of the things I love about the FBA lineage push and the reparations push as well as the black empowerment space overall is that it makes dating outside your race socially unacceptable in the black community. A lot of celebs will lose black support in the future, especially the men. Same with NFL and NBA players. Don't get me wrong, black men have always dated Becky because there are just too many seeing them as the prize but the younger generation of black men, will start looking at sisters as the only option. The push will also make being dusty unfashionable. And brothers will be talking about being a producer. I got one former friend (long story...lol) who I am proud of because he moved into tech and is now making 90k out the gate. He did it specifically to be a producer. He was a Kevin Samuels listener (I know...I know) but he was told you can't complain making lower salaries and talking about wanting a cooperative dime.

Once the brothers get their act together in large enough numbers, sisters will act accordingly. I'm convinced of that. Everyone in that space is pushing black love now.

Yes, setting the 'on code' criteria is proving very effective in separating the wheat from the chaff. It's also very telling of those who criticise and attack the new FBA code in that it exposes the haters and fraudsters especially those ineligible for reparations. It's the new bar for real blacks -B1s! 👍🏿👊🏿

 

[Red Velvet]

Yes, setting the 'on code' criteria is proving very effective in separating the wheat from the chaff. It's also very telling of those who criticise and attack the new FBA code in that it exposes the haters and fraudsters especially those ineligible for reparations. It's the new bar for real blacks -B1s! 👍🏿👊🏿

The great thing about setting a boundary is that you get to see who your true friends are. When you delineate from a leech it loses its food source which makes it angry.

 

[B1 rebel 365]

The great thing about setting a boundary is that you get to see who your true friends are. When you delineate from a leech it loses its food source which makes it angry.

Yes, it beggars belief to hear black people decry other black people for challenging WS and demanding what they are owed in reparations! These are black people that don't see themselves as black 😂 -crazy!

 

[Sapphire]

Shouldn't it be wench groomers?

Grooming works better for addressing issues with younger people, like teens and children. When you say "warmer" it is implying the woman is being warmed up to the idea of it. It is a form of grooming but it hits different when you are a grown ass woman.

 

[B1 rebel 365]

Grooming works better for addressing issues with younger people, like teens and children. When you say "warmer" it is implying the woman is being warmed up to the idea of it. It is a form of grooming but it hits different when you are a grown ass woman.

Still grooming because manipulation is involved. Subject age is immaterial because of the intent and also implies vulnerability as both are integral. Children today are predominantly the target and subject matter associated with grooming by paedophiles so in today's vernacular it's broadly synonymous with sexual exploitation of minors -same methodology just different target group. 'Wench warners' implies something women would wear to perform a sex act.

 

[equis]

These types of dudes are the worst cause they will uptalk a black woman knowing she loves the attention irl and go home, go online, and just shit all over black men. Like they want us divided!

And they know how to do it well. And just like what was stated, they up talk the sisters just to go home to their own women.

 

[B1 rebel 365]

And they know how to do it well. And just like what was stated, they up talk the sisters just to go home to their own women.

This is all so sad. Vanity and egotism is rife among us. We never used to be like that. I see black women all the time walking along openly admiring themselves in their flippin phones and most of them don't even look good -ton of weave, ridiculous eyelashes, garish clawlike fake nails, excessive makeup on overweight bodies in ill fitting clothes! So sad and pathetic 🙄

 

[equis]

This is all so sad. Vanity and egotism is rife among us. We never used to be like that. I see black women all the time walking along openly admiring themselves in their flippin phones and most of them don't even look good -ton of weave, ridiculous eyelashes, garish clawlike fake nails, excessive makeup on overweight bodies in ill fitting clothes! So sad and pathetic 🙄

Our egos are killing us as a people. I used to deal with a sister that used to just admire herself in the mirror whenever she came across a reflective surface. Come to find out she was extremely self centered and devious. It's scary at what point people have gotten so full of themselves and still have the self esteem of a wingless fly.

 

[RCNAL]

Asking a black person about reparations for FBAs is a very good litmus test. Their answer and how they answer says everything you want to know.
Even if I hear yes but its a weak yes. "Ah..er...yeah, why not" You suspect. The whole arguing about whether to vote or not won't tell you what you want to know. Reparations period. The immediate answer if you want to make it general and secondly for whom?

Let's keep it one buck. America is the ONLY place on the planet blacks is fighting white supremacy tough. I've been told why don't you go to Africa, Jamaica, whatever and fight it and I'd respond fight it alone? With who? Them n*ggas ain't tryna. The one or two mofos there about it ain't enough. I'm going with those who are trying to fight it. And that is America.

 

[Jay]

Asking a black person about reparations for FBAs is a very good litmus test. Their answer and how they answer says everything you want to know.
Even if I hear yes but its a weak yes. "Ah..er...yeah, why not" You suspect. The whole arguing about whether to vote or not won't tell you what you want to know. Reparations period. The immediate answer if you want to make it general and secondly for whom?

Let's keep it one buck. America is the ONLY place on the planet blacks is fighting white supremacy tough. I've been told why don't you go to Africa, Jamaica, whatever and fight it and I'd respond fight it alone? With who? Them n*ggas ain't tryna. The one or two mofos there about it ain't enough. I'm going with those who are trying to fight it. And that is America.

A lot of these negroes go on a tirade against Tariq when you ask them about it rather than answering the question head on. They deflect and focus on personality which gets annoying. They do everything except admit that they don’t like other Black people.

 

[RCNAL]

I am not getting caught up on personality. For example. I'm an avid listener of Jason Black. He and I would never be personal friends if I was in his circle. I can tell we wouldn't get along but I have and will support him in anyway I can. If you are fighting this system, I support you in some form or another.

On here even there may be people that either don't like me or not my cup of tea but I know this. If they are on here, they (I assume) are for actively fighting this system and I'll support any project that is reasonable they may have.

Supporting a person fighting white supremacy based on whether you like their personality is childish. We'd get nothing done if that was the case. You think Trump likes most of his supporters? He wouldn't f*ck them but they ride for each other to maintain the system. The Dems and Republicans will always agree on one thing: us, other than that they fight each other for power and control but will always quietly agree on us being controlled at all times.

Dr. Umar is another. He is problematic in a few well known ways. He's got a huge ego but at the end of the day, he's fighting to end the system. I gave to his school and it may not get done, but I genuinely don't think he took money in bad faith. I may be naive. I just think his personality issues limits his ability to get the stuff done. No one fights for black love like he does.

As for Tariq, I don't think its right to minimize his contributions on some personality conflicts one may have with his style, or demeanor. At the end of the day, he's a rider.

 

[Jay]

I am not getting caught up on personality. For example. I'm an avid listener of Jason Black. He and I would never be personal friends if I was in his circle. I can tell we wouldn't get along but I have and will support him in anyway I can. If you are fighting this system, I support you in some form or another.

On here even there may be people that either don't like me or not my cup of tea but I know this. If they are on here, they (I assume) are for actively fighting this system and I'll support any project that is reasonable they may have.

Supporting a person fighting white supremacy based on whether you like their personality is childish. We'd get nothing done if that was the case. You think Trump likes most of his supporters? He wouldn't f*ck them but they ride for each other to maintain the system. The Dems and Republicans will always agree on one thing: us, other than that they fight each other for power and control but will always quietly agree on us being controlled at all times.

Dr. Umar is another. He is problematic in a few well known ways. He's got a huge ego but at the end of the day, he's fighting to end the system. I gave to his school and it may not get done, but I genuinely don't think he took money in bad faith. I may be naive. I just think his personality issues limits his ability to get the stuff done. No one fights for black love like he does.

As for Tariq, I don't think its right to minimize his contributions on some personality conflicts one may have with his style, or demeanor. At the end of the day, he's a rider.

Yes we have to look beyond the personalities and keep the goal in mind. There are people in the space I absolutely detest but I cannot speak against them because that’s off code. The part people hate the most about the code is the discipline that is required.

It’s not like pookie and Ray Ray where you can just be like “I don’t like that hoe” and everyone starts fighting. Sometimes you will have to work with others you don’t like because it is for the greater good. Sometimes you have to be silent for the greater good. Being on code is hard for a lot of people especially when there is no immediate reward.

 

[Sapphire]

And they know how to do it well. And just like what was stated, they up talk the sisters just to go home to their own women

It is all a mind game. It is them using their "whiteness" to be subtle racist without people noticing so they don't lose their job or face any sort of consequences. They are so miserable and deceptive.

 

[Sapphire]

Still grooming because manipulation is involved. Subject age is immaterial because of the intent and also implies vulnerability as both are integral. Children today are predominantly the target and subject matter associated with grooming by paedophiles so in today's vernacular it's broadly synonymous with sexual exploitation of minors -same methodology just different target group. 'Wench warners' implies something women would wear to perform a sex act.

I see what you are saying. Not my phrase but I still like it. It works. People associate grooming with kids so if you use a white man grooming black women, it won't get much attention.