The Cookout

[sourgrapes]

In terms of the physical body, what are some things you find most attractive about men or women (or both)?

For me, I have always preferred taller men. This is not to say I have not dated shorter men, I just have a preference for height. I like to feel small. I know that sounds silly but it is true. I also prefer fit men but I have dated a few fat guys in my day. Again, this was about feeling smaller. Obviously well dressed and groomed is a staple. No one wants to date a man who can't take care of themselves. I like strong hands, bright eyes, clear soft skin, and thick hair on a man.

 

[Blackgravity]

I like petite females with nice hand's and feet, I like natural hair but i don't mind some fake hair if it looks right and if it's not 24/7 365. you can be part of the itty bitty club that's not a deal breaker, and your backside at least needs to be fit, not flat and definitely not fake.

Meagan Good would be the perfect example of what I would consider ideal for my taste.

 

[Jay]

• Evenly proportioned body e.g. DDs with no backside is not preferred or the opposite.
• Not too short, Women that are super small like 5’ - 5’ 4” don’t really move me (I’m 6’ 4”)
• She needs to move with grace and elegance
• Natural hairstyles are preferred
• Well Kept

None are deal breakers as intelligence, accountability, and loyalty are the most important to me.

 

[lexodyssey]

Besides being well groomed, I like strong and in shape guys. Not overly muscular but just someone that takes care of himself. I think I feel similar about wanting to feel small. I'm tall for a girl and I've always been muscular so I feel awkward next to skinny guys lol

 

[TheHarmattan]

I just saw this, and since you asked:

I like a woman with cornbread legs and a milkshake thick booty.
There have been a few women that are pretty but if the feet ain't nice/done, I'm not even thinking about her in a sexual manner.
Darker nipples drive me crazy. And lips. She must have kissable lips.
Ideally, I need her height to be 5'5" to 5'8", no shorter or taller.
She has to be Black, African, etc., No exceptions.

 

[Lamont]

I’m quite the sucker for cornrows and manicured toes
Fendi Capri Pants and Parasucos

 

[Geoff]

I like them slim with a decent butt. Preferably with their natural hair and no tatts. Shorter women are preferable; but as long as she’s not 6’2 or something, height isn’t a big deal.

 

[Goldilocks]

I like men just a little taller than me. Probably around 5'10. I don’t understand the obsession with tall men. I also like men who are in shape. You don't have to be shredded but a pot belly is incredible unattractive imo.

 

[The Honorable]

I like men just a little taller than me. Probably around 5'10. I don’t understand the obsession with tall men. I also like men who are in shape. You don't have to be shredded but a pot belly is incredible unattractive imo.

How do you feel about men that are 6' 0" and above? Is it a deal breaker for you?

 

[BeHart]

A physically fit dark skinned Black woman. Sane. No children yet. Not a sell out. Not fat, no make up caked up on her face, no perm or wig. Young, like early mid 20s. Don't care if she's pretty or plain just not ugly. Don't care if she's smart or average, just not an idiot.

 

[GwynShivers]

• Evenly proportioned body e.g. DDs with no backside is not preferred or the opposite.
• Not too short, Women that are super small like 5’ - 5’ 4” don’t really move me (I’m 6’ 4”)
• She needs to move with grace and elegance
• Natural hairstyles are preferred
• Well Kept

None are deal breakers as intelligence, accountability, and loyalty are the most important to me.

I'm not the pretty boy type. If you're in the mirror more than I am, it might raise a red flag. I don't take hours to get ready & you shouldn't either. I'm not concerned about outward appearance. If you don't care about yourself, why should I? I look for intelligence, character, integrity & honesty. Nobody's perfect, so don't pretend to be. Be your true self, not what you think I want you to be. I want to know your likes & dislikes. I'll tell you mine. Your goals short & long term. I'll tell you all you want to know, no secrets & no lies. Give me your best & you'll receive mine.

 

[Tati 304]

I'm not the pretty boy type. If you're in the mirror more than I am, it might raise a red flag. I don't take hours to get ready & you shouldn't either. I'm not concerned about outward appearance. If you don't care about yourself, why should I? I look for intelligence, character, integrity & honesty. Nobody's perfect, so don't pretend to be. Be your true self, not what you think I want you to be. I want to know your likes & dislikes. I'll tell you mine. Your goals short & long term. I'll tell you all you want to know, no secrets & no lies. Give me your best & you'll receive mine.

So what kind of man do you like?