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What's something that tests your patience?

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Admittedly, there's a lot that tests my patience lol But one thing I really can't stand is when people are know-it-alls and try to one-up everything you say or do. I don't mind hearing about your successes but let it be a two-way convo instead of cutting in every 5 seconds with something you've done better.
 

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    Admittedly, there's a lot that tests my patience lol But one thing I really can't stand is when people are know-it-alls and try to one-up everything you say or do. I don't mind hearing about your successes but let it be a two-way convo instead of cutting in every 5 seconds with something you've done better.

    Hell yeah, that’s super annoying!

    “Hey, I went Jet Skiing in Miami it was so fun” mjexcited




    “Oh that’s cool, I prefer MauI or the Bahamas…Miami is for beginners…you also get to swim with the dolphins in Maui” blackwomancoffee






    One thing that chaps my ass is when someone uses insider language with me and then gets an attitude when I don’t understand. For instance, you’re at a bank doing a wire transfer and you call to check the status:

    Me: When will they receive the money? ralphtresvantcool

    Bank: Well it’s in pending, once intermediary does reconciliation it should be statuses as complete” rkellyfear

    Me: What does that mean? SOEskeptical

    Bank: When intermediary does reconciliation, it’ll be completed. nialongupset



    Me: Yo, I don’t work at your bank and know your process, in plain English when will they receive the money?! lilboosiedigust
     

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    When the Brother selling Final Calls doesn't have any bean pies for sell.

    Road Rage Car GIF by A24
     

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    When the Brother selling Final Calls doesn't have any bean pies for sell.

    Road Rage Car GIF by A24
    Facts. Huge let down.
    My example is so controversial that I don't think I should voice it.

    Less controversial, but still very controversial: I have no patience for Black People that go to bat for illegal immigrants. I have no patience for people saying "Black and Brown" when they are talking.
    Me too. Codependent negros.
    Ignorance
    Stupidity too. Those two drive me up the wall.
     

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    If Black Person is a Muslim they are mentally sick. There I said it.

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    Nas is on the phone:

    He was with you for a bar and then backed out.

    Nas - Black Zombie said:
    Dumb niggas with long beards like they Arabs or Jews <--- Nas Agrees
    Or from Israel, Bismillah al rahman al rahim
    Islam's a beautiful thing <--- Nas Backtracks
    And Christian and Rastafari, helps us to bring
    Peace against the darkness, which is ungodly
    So what's the black man's true religion, who should we follow?
    Use your own intuition, you are tomorrow
     

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    Nas is on the phone:

    He was with you for a bar and then backed out.
    Nas isn't an authority. LOL
    I lived in a Muslim country and I've studied Islam. It's pure trash.

    David is a cool dude even though he is white.
    If you can get around his whiteness and focus on the information, great.


     

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    mjlol

    People that don't fully express their need or desire from me and then chastise me when I don't meet the expectation.
    Tell my gf this please. This is one of my biggest pet peeves I don't read minds. Let me know you need A, B, C, and D and then I got it.
     

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    The one thing I can't stand, is someone calling me to ask if they can stop by to use my bathroom because they are close by my house. I can't stand people in general who vist using my bathroom... I don't know what it is, it just triggers me.
    My wife and I have been saving for over 5 year's to put another bathroom in our house (bathroom/den)... So there will be a specific guest bathroom.

    Don't use my toilet!
     

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    The one thing I can't stand, is someone calling me to ask if they can stop by to use my bathroom because they are close by my house. I can't stand people in general who vist using my bathroom... I don't know what it is, it just triggers me.
    My wife and I have been saving for over 5 year's to put another bathroom in our house (bathroom/den)... So there will be a specific guest bathroom.

    Don't use my toilet!
    People do that? WTF
     

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    The one thing I can't stand, is someone calling me to ask if they can stop by to use my bathroom because they are close by my house. I can't stand people in general who vist using my bathroom... I don't know what it is, it just triggers me.
    My wife and I have been saving for over 5 year's to put another bathroom in our house (bathroom/den)... So there will be a specific guest bathroom.

    Don't use my toilet!
    The disrespecteddiemurphyfear
     

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    Tell my gf this please. This is one of my biggest pet peeves I don't read minds. Let me know you need A, B, C, and D and then I got it.
    Happens at work too

    Someone needs me to move a pallet and I put it on the rack and they get upset because it wasn't exactly where they imagined in their head.
     

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    The one thing I can't stand, is someone calling me to ask if they can stop by to use my bathroom because they are close by my house. I can't stand people in general who vist using my bathroom... I don't know what it is, it just triggers me.
    My wife and I have been saving for over 5 year's to put another bathroom in our house (bathroom/den)... So there will be a specific guest bathroom.

    Don't use my toilet!
    bruh how did this even start? I'm forreal intrigued.