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Worst Place To Be Hit On

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A few years ago, I was out for a jog, and I was almost home. I was getting ready to cross the street, and this guy pulled his car up in my way and started trying to hit on me. I don't remember what I said, but I ended up continuing my jog and taking a different way home just in case lol The weird thing is, it was in the subdivision I lived in at the time, and I never saw the guy again. So yeah, what's the worst place you've been approached?
 
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lexodyssey said:
A few years ago, I was out for a jog, and I was almost home. I was getting ready to cross the street, and this guy pulled his car up in my way and started trying to hit on me. I don't remember what I said, but I ended up continuing my jog and taking a different way home just in case lol The weird thing is, it was in the subdivision I lived in at the time, and I never saw the guy again. So yeah, what's the worst place you've been approached?
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HailCzr85 said:
bus stop/public transportation, an elevator, fairly empty street
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Come on, if a brotha fly do you think any of this would matter? Like if Shemar Moore rolled up on you and you were in an elevator would you not give him any play? I find it hard to believe.
 
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Come on, if a brotha fly do you think any of this would matter? Like if Shemar Moore rolled up on you and you were in an elevator would you not give him any play? I find it hard to believe.
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I would feel uncomfortable in an enclosed space. Especially if I wasn't interested in his overtures. I'm an EXPECT the worst and HOPE for the best kind of person. So your example, would be the hope. I hope it's someone with the manners and good nature of a Shemar Moore, but I EXPECT it to be someone less than that in which case my refusal could create a tense moment.

Though I wish it wasn't the case, the truth is all guys don't have the best of intentions and it's this understanding that keeps me on alert.
 
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    HailCzr85 said:
    I would feel uncomfortable in an enclosed space. Especially if I wasn't interested in his overtures. I'm an EXPECT the worst and HOPE for the best kind of person. So your example, would be the hope. I hope it's someone with the manners and good nature of a Shemar Moore, but I EXPECT it to be someone less than that in which case my refusal could create a tense moment.

    Though I wish it wasn't the case, the truth is all guys don't have the best of intentions and it's this understanding that keeps me on alert.
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    Ok so Boss Hog is right. That the right guy would make the "worst place to be hit on" not the "worst place to be hit on", right?
     
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    HailCzr85 said:
    I would feel uncomfortable in an enclosed space. Especially if I wasn't interested in his overtures. I'm an EXPECT the worst and HOPE for the best kind of person. So your example, would be the hope. I hope it's someone with the manners and good nature of a Shemar Moore, but I EXPECT it to be someone less than that in which case my refusal could create a tense moment.

    Though I wish it wasn't the case, the truth is all guys don't have the best of intentions and it's this understanding that keeps me on alert.
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    Well I‘m glad you have integrity and admit that your comfort is contingent on your interest level.
     
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    lexodyssey said:
    A few years ago, I was out for a jog, and I was almost home. I was getting ready to cross the street, and this guy pulled his car up in my way and started trying to hit on me. I don't remember what I said, but I ended up continuing my jog and taking a different way home just in case lol The weird thing is, it was in the subdivision I lived in at the time, and I never saw the guy again. So yeah, what's the worst place you've been approached?
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    Something similar happened to me this year. I was taking my morning walk and a guy drove past, put his car in reverse, and came back to Holla. He started with “I know this isn’t right because you’re walking alone and I’m driving up on you but I had to try…blah blah.” It made me very uncomfortable especially since I was walking in my neighborhood. I definitely didn’t walk for awhile after that.
     
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    Caprice said:
    Something similar happened to me this year. I was taking my morning walk and a guy drove past, put his car in reverse, and came back to Holla. He started with “I know this isn’t right because you’re walking alone and I’m driving up on you but I had to try…blah blah.” It made me very uncomfortable especially since I was walking in my neighborhood. I definitely didn’t walk for awhile after that.
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    Was he in a Cadillac and was he playing Diamond in the Back?

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    AfroAboriginalAmerican said:
    A LBGTQIA member bar or club. If you see me there, something has gone terribly wrong. I don't have nothing against the gays however, I have nothing against fat black crispy women. It's just that I'm not attracted to neither.
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    LGBTQIA? lol! I don't mind being hit on at a lesbian club...
     
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    AfroAboriginalAmerican said:
    A LBGTQIA member bar or club. If you see me there, something has gone terribly wrong. I don't have nothing against the gays however, I have nothing against fat black crispy women. It's just that I'm not attracted to neither.
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    Well if you at they bar they for sure gon think you are with it.

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