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You don't look Black American?

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    I know Black Americans look a bit different from Africans, but like no one ever actually makes it clear how Black Americans are supposed to look in the first place. When people say this I assume they mean that Black Americans are lightskinned? in which they're just entirely denouncing millions of people of their Black American heritage, including me. Most Black Americans aren't lightskin, but are either brownskinned or darkskinned, so I don't get it.
     

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    I know Black Americans look a bit different from Africans, but like no one ever actually makes it clear how Black Americans are supposed to look in the first place. When people say this I assume they mean that Black Americans are lightskinned? in which they're just entirely denouncing millions of people of their Black American heritage, including me. Most Black Americans aren't lightskin, but are either brownskinned or darkskinned, so I don't get it.
    Black Americans are a mix of different African tribes that’s why some look like they are from Mali, some look “Nigerian” and some look East African. The thing that separates us from the tribes we descend from is culture. If we had similar mannerisms and clothing we would be indistinguishable.
     

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    Black Americans are a mix of different African tribes that’s why some look like they are from Mali, some look “Nigerian” and some look East African. The thing that separates us from the tribes we descend from is culture. If we had similar mannerisms and clothing we would be indistinguishable.
    Do you think the European admixture has a bit to do with how we look, or no?
     

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    Do you think the European admixture has a bit to do with how we look, or no?
    Yes absolutely. A lot of us have about 20% of European DNA if not more. But look at these Nigerians.

    Homeboy and the lady all the way to the left are indistinguishable from the average Black American and that’s with their traditional clothing on.

    If they dressed in American clothes we wouldn’t be able to tell any difference.

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    There are obviously some distinctive African looks: east Africans especially. Many native Africans you can spot at a distance.

    If you are Black American and by that I'm making a broad term that includes non FBAs who were born or spent their lives in America at an early age, its more than 'a look' The way you carry yourself, obviously how you talk.

    When I'm outside America, and I approach someone randomly who I think is black American I first look at how they are dressed. We often dressed distinctly different. I also wait to hear the accent. Then I'll say 'You American?' or if I know 100 percent "Hey Fam"

    If I get it wrong, I'll play it off and conversate for a second. I've been asked if I was African. The disappointment is noticeable. lol. They (Africans) automatically assume we have zero in common. And I may as well be white. My usual fun answer is 'about 400 years ago'.

    Canadian blacks sound like us but without a wee bit of our swag but by and large, I (and other American friends) regard them as fam. To a slightly lesser extent black Brits. They can be cool and have a what's up fam vibe but there are a few times, I've gotten a cold shoulder.

    I've been in countries where they are very racist against native Africans but treat black Americans as de facto whites. Sometimes they aren't sure (the non blacks) so they wait to hear the accent. And with that accent comes a certain amount of 'I ain't taking any bullsh*t' vibe as well.

    Some Africans will let locals punk them. They will be next in line and mofos will put their sh*t right in front of yours. That's happened to me a few times and it only happens once. I get very black after that. "Yo..what you doin' playah?" They realize I ain't a native African. Most of us have a 'west African' look for obvious reasons. Many of us were enslaved from there. And if its a country where there are very few if any black Americans they assume we are one of them.

    What automatically distinguishes me most times is my fake zirconia diamond earring in my left ear. We are almost always the only ones who do that. Not many Africans do. I've heard some Nigerians have but I've yet to see it.

    What I've been told that makes us distinctive as well is that we aren't shy about walking into anywhere or walking up to anyone.

    PS: I edited this post to add this. One thing for sure is if there is beef that can escalate, we go in the fastest. I'm no thug, no street cat, obviously a 'blerd' (black nerd) but I ain't gonna get disrespected and punked either. We will put hands on folks quicker than any other black folks. No question. I've had to and me and my boys have. They know that about us too.
     
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    Some Africans will let locals punk them. They will be next in line and mofos will put their sh*t right in front of yours. That's happened to me a few times and it only happens once. I get very black after that. "Yo..what you doin' playah?" They realize I ain't a native African. Most of us have a 'west African' look for obvious reasons. Many of us were enslaved from there. And if its a country where there are very few if any black Americans they assume we are one of them.
    The craziest part about this point is that if another Black person does it that same African person will have a spine. But be in Norway and some White dude cuts in front of the African…the African is going to be like…

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    That’s one of the biggest difference I see culturally as you highlighted. They come to the USA with that meek ass attitude towards White people and cannot understand why we are so buck and in your face.
     

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    One group that has set the standard of black people's rep is the military. Forgot to mention them.

    Also, to many non American blacks, specifically African blacks they are both shocked, surprised, jealous, proud and envious all in one seeing Black men talk shit to white boys especially white American guys.

    I've been in expat bars where there just a few of us chilling, drunk white boys feeling froggish off liquid courage, they will have numbers but by and large, most of them are weak ass cowards. Africans have seen us talk the most sh*t wishing the white boys start shit and its the first time in their natural lives they have seen black men talk to white men that way.

    Many if not most Africans don't have the heart to because they have been raised to worship white Jesus (daddy)