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Interesting Video. Gives you a very good look at why this bafoon is selling us out!

How many of you know about the benign neglect policy?

Who wrote it? When it was implemented?
Why it was implemented? How has that policy played out?
How does that policy affect black people now? How do we see that policy in current politics?

There are lots of people who remain uninformed because they don't know how to use computers and/or smart phones or have a limited base of how to use them. For example may only know how to use them for Facebook, texting and calling etc. !

How big of a role do you think computer literacy plays in awareness of important information affecting the black community?

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I'm doing all I can to stop caring but of course many are glued to this whole situation because there are so many tropes attached to it. I honestly hope for peace and a solid resolution for this whole situation

I've been thinking a lot about how things were for me growing up without a Black media that actually informed us. Its wild to think how I got myself into so much trouble just because I didn't know the code of white supremacy. Is there any event or time period that you can think of growing up that would've gone down differently had you been aware of the Code? I read Malcolm X when I was 19, so by the time I was old enough to vote I knew better than to trust the democrats, but I think my biggest hindrance to my social and professional growth was in thinking it was "whites vs everyone else" instead of "blacks vs everyone else." I went to a liberal arts school and had a lot of international friends and just because they had melanin or looked like me, or weren't European that we saw the racist white man as our mutual irritant. Boy was I wrong, and it took me til 2016 to truly understand we had no allies. The energy I saw from liberal coworkers and (now) acquaintances for migrants and illegals when Trump put ICE on their asses had me feeling a certain type of way, because not once did I see that kind of energy for when cops were killing Black people. That was probably my first real "A HA!" moment. Back then I had just started listening to Tariq and wasn't even hip to TBA or PBT yet.

I’m a fan of shorty but I used to see her on twitter calling out people that were flirting but then she drop a picture like this:



Why are you showing off your profile in the mirror if you’re not looking for that kind of attention?

My husband’s crossdressing is the bane of my existence

It makes me sick. All of this started right after we got married. And I do mean RIGHT after. On our honeymoon, he wanted to wear the lingerie I had brought for myself. Then, he shaved his beard and his entire body. He started wearing my slutty clothes. He would only use razors, shaving cream, body lotion, etc that smelled super girly. I was not into this at all, but I wanted to be a good wife so I tried to indulge him. I bought him lots of lingerie and pretended I thought it was sexy. I did this to avoid a fight. He was not into porn before, but now he had started watching sissy porn and especially sissy hypno porn. Pretty soon he no longer wanted to have regular sex. It was always the strap on or some other weird kinky shit. We were always kinky before (bdsm) but it never involved sissification/crossdressing.

He started tucking, wearing breast forms, and even going out in public in bimbo mode. The “sex” was extremely emotionally exhausting for me but I did it anyway because I didn’t want a fight. I even brought in an old fling of mine (who is bi) to spend a weekend with us. My husband was dressed up the whole time and we sort of had a threesome but the other guy only lets dudes suck him, he won’t fuck them. I feel sick even remembering this experience, but at the time I just did it on autopilot so my husband would be satisfied. Soon after this, he convinced me to buy him a $600 chastity device. This was sort of fun for me at first. But then he decided he wanted to get it resized. He got one that was about 3 sizes too small. It would take him 40+ mins to get it on because he really had to jam himself in there. It was painful to look at. I was afraid this would cause permanent damage and I begged him to stop. He wouldn’t listen. He wanted to shrink his penis. This made me incredibly angry, but I bottled it up.

His crossdressing just kept escalating from there. We had an agreement that he would not do anything permanent, and that he had only one hall pass per year. The hall pass thing I had agreed to before we got married, because I already knew he was bi and I accepted it. There is one thing a man has that I don’t, so I agreed to let him get that elsewhere once per year.
For almost the whole first year of marriage, he was a walking kink. He had bought this stupid breast pump thing that’s supposed to make him grow little boobs over time, but the cups were way too big so it didn’t work. I then found emails between him and a hormone replacement clinic. He was asking them about doing a consultation to go on estrogen. That was the straw that broke the camels back. We had a really long discussion about it, and I told him that if he does this I am gone. The next day he went backpacking to find himself. I was creating an exit plan while he was gone, fully expecting him to come home and tell me that this fetish is more important to him than I am. But actually, he came back a changed man. He wanted to be normal again! He put all the sissy stuff away and stopped acting feminine.

That was almost a year ago, and things have been amazing since then. We’ve even adopted the traditional lifestyle, he works and I stay home. I take care of all the cooking and cleaning. We even do domestic discipline. Things have been so wonderful. It’s been almost a year since he stopped with all that. I’ve never been this happy. I found out we’re having a baby! We were over the moon!
And then…

He tells me he wants to start cross dressing again. He said he’ll only do it for “Locktober”. I told him then you must mean next year, not this year because I will be newly postpartum by then and I can’t deal with that in such a vulnerable state, nevermind that I also won’t be feeling up for any sex either. He considers this, then says he’ll do it in June this year (I’ll be 6 months then). I try to put it out of my mind, since at this time it was only February. But I’m already thinking of places I can go for that whole month of June so that I don’t have to participate in this shit again. This fetish is absolutely repulsive to me and I don’t think that I can slap on a brave face and suffer through it. Maybe I can for a month, I did it for a year! But I’m thinking it would probably just be easier if I am away somewhere while he’s at home doing that.

Then he bought new cups for that breast pump that actually fit his chest and has been using them for a few days. I objected because he said he was only going to do this in June. He said it’s so he can be ready for June and have little boobs by then. He puts the pump on as soon as he gets home. Before he even touches me. And it stays on for an hour. Then yesterday after pumping, he goes and puts on a bra and panties. I was napping when he did that and didn’t notice until he grabbed my hand and started trying to make me finger him. I pretended to still be asleep until he stopped. Then a bit later I got up and asked why he was wearing that. He said cause he felt sexy. I told him again that he said he would only do this in a June. It’s not fair to me for him to start dressing feminine because it always makes him start acting feminine too and I don’t like that. He said “but don’t I look cute?” And kept asking until I reluctantly lied and said yes cause I didn’t want to hurt his feelings even though I wanted to yell at him “NO, YOU LOOK FUCKING RIDICULOUS!”
He went and changed after that and then wouldn’t touch me the rest of the night. Before bed we had a small argument about it but he just shut down and went to bed without saying another word.

We’ve been here before. Either I put on an Oscar worthy performance, and enthusiastically participate in whatever depraved kinky shit he wants to do, or he withholds all love and affection from me until I do.
I feel like he’s slipping away and I’m losing him again to this disgusting, life ruining fetish. When he stopped cross dressing last year, I told him that I will not go back to home doing this full time. I can’t. His entire life revolved around this kink. He assured me that he was over it, and no longer found it appealing. That it was a phase. I believed him. And now we’re here. What can I do. Grin and bear it I guess? I feel trapped. I felt trapped before, but now I’m pregnant so I’m REALLY trapped.

EDIT:
My husband KNOWS how much I hate this fetish. I try to bottle my emotions and avoid fighting about it because whenever we do have a fight, it’s explosive and he will scream in my face. So I would rather just play along than have another fight like that

Also, my understanding is that someone is trans if they truly feel they are the opposite gender. He has vehemently told me that he does NOT feel he is a woman. At all. He has said he just wants to be a “pretty girl”, and bimbo/sissification is what does it for him. His idea of femininity does not go beyond looking like a hypersexualized blow up doll and also being sexually degraded/objectified (especially by men). That’s why i feel this is truly a fetish and not a gender identity issue

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When I was younger I used to over tip all the time so I wouldn't fall into that stereotype that "Black's are bad tippers" I used to hear that all the time so I used to over tip to prove people wrong.
But now that I'm older, I only tip if the service is good, and I always tip heavy if I have a black waiter or waitress. If I have a none black waitress/waiter and I have good service, I do 20 - 25 % depending on the vibe I get.
Am I the only one who does this or is this something a lot of black people think about?
What do you tip and what would make you over tip?

I don't condone giving your vote to the Democrats at all. They have done zero for us.

We will never get enough of them to decide to sit it out. They are just voting for the privilege/sake/ritual of voting. If you try to talk to them they will start with prayer and the bible.

Since they ( the old civil rights generation) make up a large part of the black voting block us young folks sitting out isn't going to do much to hurt the Democrats. Remember this is the baby boomer generation so they far out number us. Just those old voters is going to be a lot in the bag for Democrats.

In order for young voters to deal the biggest blow we must make their votes negate the old civil rights generation's vote.

The only way to do that is to change the tally to hurt Democrats and help the Republicans at the same time.

So if we just sit out we take votes from the Democrats that they may have gotten. However if we go protest vote then we help to nullify those old civil rights vote by putting more votes on the Republican tally that they would not have gotten. Not only are you taking votes from the Democrats but you are now giving those votes to their opponents.

That will do far more to hurt the Democrats. That just mathematically works. Just a thought!

The news media is trying to cover up what Mike Tyson said on Jeff Rogan's podcast. He said those demonic as rich folks are hunting homeless ppl. I believe him. I think tht white dude was sent to antagonize Tyson into a fight. The devils Play many tricks.

Do you feel bad for a police officer who get's killed in the line of duty or killed in action?

As for me I do not! I feel the same about a cop as I do any other dangerous animal! I don't see a rattlesnake run over on my street and feel sad or bad about it. I just think at least it isn't a danger to me now! I actually feel good. I feel no different about cops!

They feel that way about us as black people! Why shouldn't I feel that way about them?

Not saying to do anything to them but if they get smoked then oh freakin well! One less!

I guess it is considered outdated now, but I met my wife on a phone chatline. We talked liked each others conversation. We set up a date for that weekend and have been together ever since!

The global anti-Black violence and racism continues.
Please be extra careful while traveling in anti-Black countries such as Iraq, especially if you are a Black woman. It's beyond time to begin the process of Black people building for ourselves in our own countries.

Kenyan Woman In Iraq Got Thrown From Third Floor Of A Balcony
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A friend got me watching this. At first, I was not really impressed and almost stopped watching but I stuck it out. It is pretty funny! I mean, it has some gore and whatnot but the humor is good. Season 3 kicks off tomorrow.

Is anyone else here watching the show?

"The Overton window is the range of policies politically acceptable to the mainstream population at a given time. It is also known as the window of discourse.he term is named after American policy analyst Joseph Overton, who stated that an idea's political viability depends mainly on whether it falls within this range, rather than on politicians' individual preferences. According to Overton, the window frames the range of policies that a politician can recommend without appearing too extreme to gain or keep public office given the climate of public opinion at that time." cited from Wikipedia

Why am I speaking about this? I want to explain how our thinking and goals should be focused.

The Overton window in any society determines what behavior and ideology is acceptable and what is considered going a bit too far. Have you ever been at a gathering and there is that one person who just takes a conversation too far? It starts with them seeming a bit on the edge but no one says anything. Before you know it they say something that is just a line too far and everyone gets upset.

In our society things like being openly racist are considered being too much. It falls outside the Overton window. However it depends on the person's level of racism. You would be ostracized if you just outright called a person a N----r in the place of work or even out in public. The person would likely lose their job and lose business. However if the person is overtly racist then they can get away with it. Maybe they are saying things that appear racist but not going full on with it. Right now in our society that is pretty much not frowned upon too much. A person could get away with this.

This is largely due to what is considered acceptable in media. People like Sean Hannity, Tucker Carlson and in the past Bill O'Reilly say outwardly racist things on national television. This causes racism to become more acceptable. Saying their talking points is considered part of normal discourse and conversation. (remember it is also know as window of discourse).

This is why we must call out and put down harshly even the smallest instances of such behavior. Lots of people say that Trump made racism worse. He did but that is in part because we as a society allowed the Overton window to be pushed to that extent. We allowed being outwardly racist to be acceptable behavior.

The Overton window moved to that point that the way Trump and racist behaved wasn't considered so radical it was within the normal societal behavior. We can't allow that.

In my personal life I remember when I first got braids. Everyone at my place of work complimented me on how nice they were. I could tell some people of other races were curious. They gave compliments but they were a bit taken aback by the hairstyle. Now if anyone knows me they know I am quite outlandish with my hairstyles. Over time they began to learn more about African American hairstyles. They began to ask me what I was going to do next and even suggest styles. It went from being a hairstyle that was maybe radical or just acceptable( look at the first chart) to being popular.

I even had people asking for referrals to my stylist for friends and for their kids or relatives.

We can make changes to what is considered acceptable in our society. As long as we allow racism to be considered acceptable it is only just outside of the Overton window. We must make any instance of racism so radical and ostracized that no one dares participate in it for fear of punishment or consequences. If a business acts in a racist manner we must as a whole boycott them and leave them in financial ruins. If an individual is racist we must boycott the company they work at until they are fired and leave their life in ruins with them and their family starving on the streets.

Officials described fractal wood burning as an art form that has risen to fame on social media sites like TikTok. The fractal burning process normally uses a high-voltage transformer to flow current across wood items that have been soaked with a chemical solution.

The Marathon County Sheriff’s Office is warning of the dangers of fractal wood burning and says it should only be done by trained professionals.

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sad, people dying over challenges. I don't understand people anymore.

Two Wisconsin residents electrocuted after trying TikTok trend

I have some boxing experience, what martial arts should I practice to protect my family and self defense? Do adults practice karate/ tae kwon do? Have you noticed a lot of SWS in the BJJ space?

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All that bark and wasn’t ready for the action. He slapped that nigga into the 5th dimension. Did he fall asleep after the slap or when he hit the ground?

Right now is the breaking point. If we can't get reparations within the next 10 years we will never be able to get it. The only reason it is even remotely considered right now is because they need the black vote.

Unfortunately most of the black vote right now is the older civil rights generation. They will continue to vote Democrat no matter what.

What it will take is the black community as a collective sitting out and not voting. The civil rights generation need to understand that people died back in the 60s not for us to have a right to vote but for us to have a better life.

Martin Luther Kings dream didn't mention anything about voting. It was all about us being treated fairly and having a better situation here in this country.

Unless we just let the Democrats be on their own for a few election cycles and they see how much they need our vote nothing will be done.

Once they bring in enough immigrants to replace our vote and continue to decimate our population by pushing a liberal agenda that includes being gay/lesbian and aborting our children they won't need our vote. There is no reason to give reparations at that point.

Reparations will be given because it is politically necessary to do so. This isn't an argument about doing what's right or that we deserve it. Indeed we do deserve it but America has never done what is right. From Trayvon Martin, Rodney King, Philando Castile, Breona Taylor, Sandra Bland, Jim Crow Era and even currently they continue to violate our human rights. I didn't say civil rights. I said human rights. Other countries like China have even called them out for their human rights abuses.

They continue to do wrong because they don't want to do what's right. They want to do what is politically convenient. Right now it is not politically convenient to give reparations in any form.

We must make it politically inconvenient not to give us reparations!

So I guess the powers that be are really hearing B1 voice’s and they’re not hearing the usual political language they’re used to hearing.So they’re trying to get ahead of it and completely force our hand.You can count on me writing PBT, TBA, King Flex or Vicki every time and push come to shove I got that fine money ready.Another thing this tells me that there’s more of us than they have counted and our vote means more than they portray..

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I got into this channel for about a week. Its a pretty good set up. They had different artists come on to talk about their favorite records. The part at 25:25 with Kurupt got me choked up a little. He starts talking about his mom, then old comrades who fell by the wayside. Kurupt gets disarmingly sentimental about the song and the people he starts remembering. It don't have nothing to do with nothing really, but I thought it was worth sharing. Especially with all the frontin' and stunting in Hip Hop. It was nice to see a genuine moment with a guy from Death Row records of all places. Mostly, just wild to think how long ago the 90's were. Had I known I was living in a Golden Age, I would've paid more attention instead of chasing skirts and smoke.

If you look at the Earth as a living organism, one could argue that we humans are engaging in a fight to preserve the body of the organism we inhabit, much like healthy cells fight off cancerous cells within ourselves.

Is it possible that we Blacks are the healthy cells and we are succumbing to the mutant cells (WS) within our host organisms's ecosystem? For us humans, a body doesn't have to be completely inhabited by cancerous cells to die from it, we just need enough malignent cells to do us in. We may already be 400 years too late in fighting off this cancer. Now look at where we at. I'm not trying to be pessimistic, but we are probably past the point of diplomacy, and even wehen we get our reparations, the Earth may be too f***ed to even be habitable for future generations. Going by this Cells theory we have no choice but to fight white supremacy, its in our nature. Just a few thoughts....

One of the things we generally ask for is Police Reform.
The white supremacists are constantly trying to frame the narrative of what that means. Most of their suggestions are trash.

Some people both black and white don't even understand what qualified immunity truly is. I especially don't think white people understand because if they did they would be for removing it.
First let's define and discuss what qualified immunity is.

"Qualified immunity grants all government workers immunity for violating constitutional and civil rights unless the victims of those violations can show that their rights were “clearly established.” Although innocuous sounding, the clearly-established test is a legal obstacle nearly impossible to overcome. It requires a victim of government abuse to identify an earlier decision by the Supreme Court or a federal appeals court in the same jurisdiction, holding that precisely the same conduct under the same circumstances is illegal or unconstitutional. If none exists, the government worker is immune. It doesn’t matter whether the worker’s actions are unconstitutional, unreasonable, intentional, or malicious."

Thus is virtually impossible to overcome. It's like when you try to get the first job but they all require a year of experience. But how do you get the year when no one hires with less than a year.

This is the same because you can't sue a police officer directly unless he violates a right that some one else successfully sued for. But how can that be when no one else is allowed to sue because of this doctrine?

Hopefully this gave a clearer understanding.

What is our overall goal? To stop the violence and mistreatment.

Punishment and consequences is the thing that most likely curbs the bad behavior of police.

Here are some of my suggestions.

1. Remove qualified
2. Require all police to have at least an associates degree. No exceptions.
3. Require a national test with state licensure (like nurses and doctors are required to have)
4. Require police officers to carry liability insurance paid for our of their pocket
5. Create a national agency to investigate law enforcement misconduct
6. Tie federal funding to police misconduct. If any department gets more than 10 founded allegations of misconduct or unlawful use of force their federal funding is cut. Departments would be responsible to investigate. They would then be audited by the national agency I mentioned earlier. If the department says unfounded and the national agency determines it was founded their funding is cut.
* This would force departments to investigate honestly and hold officers accountable.
7. If an officer is accused of unlawful use of force he is suspended without pay pending investigation. Investigation would be required to be at least 2 weeks minimum. Any department that refuses to do so has federal funding cut.
8. Any officer with more than 2 founded use of force allegations is placed into a national database. They are fired and unable to be hired as law enforcement. If the department refuses federal funding is cut until the officer is fired. Any department that hired them has federal funding cut.
9. Criminal investigation into police misconduct and charges are done by federal prosecutors instead of local ones.
10. Any police chief or sheriff that oversees more than 20 founded use of force allegations within a year is mandated to resign immediately.

This creates consequences for their actions. It ties financial consequences for police departments that refuses to hold police accountable.
Requiring college education weeds out some the racist white supremacists who just want to be a coo to abuse black people.
Requiring liability insurance will make them think before acting in an abusive manner because then you could go after their insurance.
Like any insurance if too many claims at filed the premiums would go up causing financial consequences to the officer directly.

Requiring a state license means that the state could punish them and even revoke the license.

The crazy thing is 5,6,7,8 could be done via executive order without any need for Congress to approve. Biden just won't do it!

Chinese Teacher Thinks All Black Americans Speak With A Hoodrat Dialect
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Well two can play this game...

🎶 "Why-thai, -thai-o-toy-o-thai-thai​

Rock-thai, -thai-o-toy-o-thai-thai" 🎶​