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I love the Lapeef show. They address a ton of relationship topics. What are your thought on a loveless marriages?

Do women need love and warm feelings to maintain a relationship? Or is resources enough?

I had locs for like 7 years and recently cut them off so i'm not into the whole hair care stuff. Recommend me natural stuff yall use.

I just saw something about it but I guess Bubba Wallace won his first nascar race yesterday. I wondered what he would end up doing after all of that went down last year with him. We didn't have this forum at the time to talk about it lol but what did you think of what happened with him?

Bubba Wallace Makes History With His First NASCAR Victory at Talladega

I like independent artist that can spit, he's under Tech n9ne on Strang music label.

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Anyone here heard of Bago? She's an artist who does a mix of pop and r&b. I listened to her first album, Sunday's Best years ago, I highly recommend it. She also dropped another album called Loyal Forever, but she kinda disappeared from the internet as she changed his socials to some jewelry site or something. Anyway, I noticed she released a new track recently and I've been hooked on it since. I don't understand why she hasn't become more popular, her music is great.

Her new song is below. What do you guys think?
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I got the invite to try Win 11 before the official release, I've been running it for a few weeks now and I haven't had any issues. I really like the new look and it runs pretty smooth. Anyone else get it? Getting it? or already have it? It's a free upgrade by the way.

I thought this would be a good thread to have. A way to share news stories and talk about people who have done some pretty amazing things.

I am ashamed to say I am only just hearing about the work of Mashudu Tshifularo. I want to start with him for this thread.

In 2019, Dr Tshifularo and his team successfully pioneered a transplant of a patient’s middle ear to cure his deafness, making it the first in the world. The patient was a 35-year- old man who suffered hearing loss as a result of a car accident that damaged his inner ear. Using 3D technology, he was able to recreate the bones -the hammer, anvil , stirrup, and the ossicles that make up the inner ear, replacing the damaged ones.


The operation was performed by Professor Mashudu Tshifularo and his team from the University of Pretoria Faculty of Health at the Steve Biko Academic hospital in Pretoria on March 13, 2019. The surgery was successfully completed in one and a half hours and was completed through endoscopy, a less invasive method of surgery.

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You can read more about him and his success here.

California’s traffic jams are legendary, but this is one for the books.

A record 62 cargo ships are waiting to dock at the ports of Los Angeles and Long Beach, and are stuck floating off the coast amid a serious supply chain crunch that could mean fewer toys under the Christmas tree this year.

The problem reflects a combination of growing cargo volumes, a labor shortage and COVID-related safety measures that slow the handling of each ship. About one-third of all imports into the U.S. pass through the ports each year.

The Port of Long Beach has broken monthly records for how much cargo has passed through for 12 of the last 13 months, with 32 percent more cargo processed this year than in 2020, according to the trade publication Supply Chain Dive. Backups at the port as cargo ships wait for berths have been common all year, and have only grown as the peak fall shipping season arrived.



@Jay get your stuff together.

Roman Reigns, Sasha, and Bianca got Smackdown popping. I'm watching Raw and it feels like I'm watching garbage throw away tv. It's so boring.

The Thread Title says it all...Let's Go!

For me, it's when the guy treats it too much like an interview and grills me with questions. Questions are a great way to get to know someone, but it needs to flow smoothly in conversation. I don't want to feel like I'm on the witness stand lol

Think about it,



Prior to 2001, who would use the term Ether to describe something as "offensive, disrespectful, hurtful, piercing, etc"? I personally do not remember a time where that word was ever used until Nas dropped Ether on Jay-Z (Pun fully intended).

That's why I conclude that Ether is such a much more impactful track as its title is now apart of our lexicon. Children born in 2001 use the term in their normal language not understanding that its usage is directly tied to the destruction of Jay-Z's ego.

While this is an old horse, it's still an important horse.

NAS IS THE GOAT.

I know people who have gone through divorce. Some of them did go through couple therapy, while others did not. Some of them still got divorces, but some did stick together for a while longer.

Anyway, would you go through therapy first if you feel a divorce is coming?

And this might be why

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I wouldn't mind getting my hands on a android smartwatch, or an Apple Watch, but I can't be bothered to spend so much on one at the moment. I did get this cheap chinese workout band that works like a smartwatch kinda. It's like called the Miband 5 or something. It was like $35 and lets you count steps, calories burnt etc.

Do you guys own any legit smart watches though?

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Lute is a member of Dreamville, and is really underrated. He just dropped an album today that I've been anticipating...he's similar to Isaiah Rashad of TDE who also released a great album. I really suggest you check this guy out!

I always liked the concept of being friends with someone first before dating them. It establishes a bond without the entanglements of lust, romance, and infatuation. It doesn't come easy though. Most of the time, you will know if you are interested in making something more or not right away and if you hold back on that, you risk losing them to someone else.

If being friends first was an option for you, would you take that option?

When I was younger, I would dress up and go door to door for candy. Standard childhood experience.

As an adult, I really don't do anything. I am not into the party scene and as much as I do enjoy dressing up, I am not down to go to parties. If I happen to work on Halloween, I will wear some cat ears or something. The clinic I work at allows some minor costume wear which is fun. I would love to be able to pass out candy but I have to wait until I have a proper house for that. Hoping I can swing something next year. Even if I have to get a friend to pay "rent" and do a house share with me. It would be worth it to finally own property. That and I'd love to decorate for the holidays.

Anyway, do you do anything on or for Halloween? Do you have any plans this year?