Goes back to my original point, men speaking in ideals instead of realities. That’s nice what men “should be” doing this and that but that’s not reality. The vast majority of women will never be with a man who doesn’t need her help paying the bills.
Why does the solution always have to be something out of reach for the vast majority of people?
Women are having less sex but the number of men is far greater . Women are having sex with the most desirable men and leaving the others out in the cold.
It's not a fair comparison to women because women don't have to hunt to have sex. A man with no money has no chance of getting sex, a broke woman can get sex whenever but what a woman can't get readily is a man to commit to her.https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2019/03/29/share-americans-not-having-sex-has-reached-record-high/
“For most of the past three decades, 20-something men and women reported similar rates of sexlessness. But that has changed in recent years. Since 2008, the share of men younger than 30 reporting no sex has nearly tripled, to 28 percent. That’s a much steeper increase than the 8 percentage point increase reported among their female peers.”
300% vs 8% 😂 This is what men are choosing?
Okay and it’s still reality. Why not address reality? That’s why these problems never get solved. Fake solutions and idealistic talking points. These solutions presented by these men online are only meant to keep the gender war going.Well we have to factor in wage stagnation since 1978, cost of living increases, middle class erosion, and etc they all play a role in why the AVERAGE household needs dual incomes.
It's not a fair comparison to women because women don't have to hunt to have sex. A man with no money has no chance of getting sex, a broke woman can get sex whenever but what a woman can't get readily is a man to commit to her.
lol I do know a few people like that.Yeah get married at 17 3/4 quarters talking about they waited for marriage.
Why would she lie about it?I don't believe her at all. I just can't. What social media does she follow. Who does she hang around. Im not saying that she should be thottin it up but sex is everywhere. Its hard to avoid the subject. Its cool if she is though.
Clout Chasing. Lots of people clout chase to gain publicty or jus get paid.Why would she lie about it?
To be fair, she never said that no one wanted to wife her up. She said, she never met anyone who was up to par.Nah Bruh,
Hopkinsville, KY (Military Town aka Hoptown) is right outside Fort Campbell, KY, 15mins from Austin Peay University, 45mins Western Kentucky University and Nashville.
50 year old Virgin, she is either born again or a Toni Morrison fan, But No man has ever tried to put a jersey on her? Ever?! No she was probably trying to tax Benz prices for a Chevy Bolt. No I don't believe for a second no one wanted to wife her up, she probably one of the career woman feminist or she had a Zaddy fetish and Zaddy found reality. IT GOES DOWN IN THESE BACKWATER MILITARY TOWNS IS ALL I'M SAYING.
Nope, somebody lying 🤥
As I stated earlier, somebody is lying, between there and Nashville are (Black) men with resources. I know because I've lived in that area and I know there are also hard headed career women playing victim. Get what your saying but I am going to stick with my point.To be fair, she never said that no one wanted to wife her up. She said, she never met anyone who was up to par.
What is she lying about though? Being a virgin?As I stated earlier, somebody is lying, between there and Nashville are (Black) men with resources. I know because I've lived in that area and I know there are also hard headed career women playing victim. Get what your saying but I am going to stick with my point.
She's lying about NEVER meeting anyone, her claim for virginity is wild but it is what it is...What is she lying about though? Being a virgin?
Oh for sure. You know she's met 100 dudes but probably has standards that are through the roof. Dudes found that it is not worth the hassle and bounced.She's lying about NEVER meeting anyone, her claim for virginity is wild but it is what it is...
I think you make a good point. I believe it is our rigidity in some of our ideals about the way things "should be" that makes us so easy to destabilize. Of course these ideals made for strong family units and communities, but if you have an entity that does not want you to have those strong family units and communities, they have the formula for your destruction because you are unable to stray from the blueprint.Okay and it’s still reality. Why not address reality? That’s why these problems never get solved. Fake solutions and idealistic talking points. These solutions presented by these men online are only meant to keep the gender war going.
Other communities are using duel incomes to level up and stay ahead of the game. Meanwhile BM are stuck on this 1920s BS, shaming BW for advancing financially and then telling BW to solely depend on BM when BM can’t even afford what they are actually asking for.
You asked for proof and I gave it to you. Of course now you move the goal post again. How are you speaking on a dating market when you don’t even know what’s actually happening in the dating market? You spoke as if men were incomplete control of the dating market and winning while women are losing. But the data doesn’t support that.
Monogamy is actually beneficial to men. If women expect monogamy then more men have mates. If you take away that expectation then there is no reason for a woman to be with an certain men. Which is why with the decrease in marriage and commitment more men are sexless and lonely. If this is all your grand design ya’ll sure are shooting yourselves in the foot.
BP need to stop living in the past and get with the times. That Howdy Doody and Leave it to Beaver mess is gone. The longer we stay stuck in that shit the more we lose.
How is someone supposed to lead a community or a household when they don’t even exist in reality?
At the same time is "the way it should be" social or natural? Do you think we'd be hearing about how independent women are if we didn't have this highly evolved society? If people had to hunt for food, had to build their own shelter, and protect their land would we still see this same strong and independence?I think you make a good point. I believe it is our rigidity in some of our ideals about the way things "should be" that makes us so easy to destabilize. Of course these ideals made for strong family units and communities, but if you have an entity that does not want you to have those strong family units and communities, they have the formula for your destruction because you are unable to stray from the blueprint.
Like a line of ants, put a big enough twig on the line and they are completely discombobulated. They eventually find their way but they have to stray from the original path (at least for moment).
I think it's nostalgia for a past that never existed and BM nor BW needs the weight of having to conform to these archetypes so strictly. The guilt of falling short in any small way becomes debilitating and ultimately sours the relationship between the genders. I mean to say, I believe it is our strict adherence to how things are "supposed to be" as we are faced with an entity that targets exactly those ideals, that is causing/feeding the gender wars.
I do not believe there is any difference between social and natural. We are natural beings living in a natural world. The things we do (societies) come from our nature. We built them in nature using nature. I think it's literally impossible for us to do anything unnatural. It's a word that has no meaning in reality because "unnatural" doesn't exist. But I digress LOL.At the same time is "the way it should be" social or natural? Do you think we'd be hearing about how independent women are if we didn't have this highly evolved society? If people had to hunt for food, had to build their own shelter, and protect their land would we still see this same strong and independence?
You have different tools for different jobs. Our bodies are just tools.Why do we strong and independent cherry picking? It's interesting how when it comes to the hardest jobs in society we don't hear about this competition with men. Why don't we see this in construction, sewer jobs, military combat, trash men, etc? Why is it only in the air conditioned jobs?
I think there isn't a single "natural order". That's just an idea. We think just because it "worked", that's the only way it can work at all times regardless of circumstance but that conclusion is completely uninvestigated. In fact, we bitterly refuse to investigate it (solely to spite the opposition largely, I believe).I posit that it is the natural order but society has made women feel that they do not need men and it isn't true.
100% which is why women shouldn't try to be Men.You have different tools for different jobs. Our bodies are just tools.
No, there is a single natural order. You'll see it the second you and your independent are in fear of death, she will expect you to rise up to the occasion. If you don't, she will lose respect for you, why? Because if she doesn't feel safe in your presence then she is vulnerable. It can't be that we have to be providers and protectors only when it's convenient for women. We are or are not.I think there isn't a single "natural order". That's just an idea. We think just because it "worked", that's the only way it can work at all times regardless of circumstance but that conclusion is completely uninvestigated. In fact, we bitterly refuse to investigate it (solely to spite the opposition largely, I believe).
I think it's an invitation for BM to evolve, to be more for BW than the traditional hunter/gatherer. How can society convince them and don't need men if they are in fact, indispensable? I'm not saying anything has to be completely abandoned but rather, expanded, improvised. I think the allowance, the freedom to not be "as it should be" and just "be", would heal any divide.
Facts. She’ll be needy, clingy, self conscious, etc. it’ll be like the first time you had sex in high school on steroids. Ontop of that she gonna feel like you owe her since she let you hit so she is going to be ultra demanding.Being a virgin at 50 is cute for her, I guess. She's not worth screwing, tho. Once you hit that, she will be a horny basket case or she will turn you into a basket case or both.
Also, she won't know what to do anyways. The sex will be terrible because she wouldn't know what to do.
Why is it so hard to believe she is telling the truth? It goes both ways. She is totally believable IMO she didn’t try to play it up for the camera or anything.Why is it so hard to believe that people lie. LOL. Some people do it ALL of THE TIME. How can you prove that you are a virgin? Why do you want other people to know about this unless you are seeking ATTENTION. Oh. Im tripping. Im actually taking a Wendy Williams show seriously.LOL
You could easily be a dirt bag and be a virgin because your standards are too high.I think the Virgin Virtue is honorable (when its done at a high level). This is just my opinion but when someone says that they are a virgin the first thing that comes to my mind is extremely strong willed, disciplined, and competent. You can’t say im a virgin and be built like a baby rattle that body has to be Immaculate. Can’t say I’m a virgin and have a uncontrollable tongue and foul attitude. You can’t say I’m a virgin and not be the smartest person in the room. Can’t see I’m a virgin and not move with the confidence and control of a God/goddess. Everything in your life has to match up the same energy and discipline you approached your virginity because Its i high bar that few can reach and maintain. If you don’t thennnnn thats how you get to be 50 yr old virgin Because people begin to see and understand why you are still a virgin…..But you know thats just 🤷🏾♂️me I’m open for criticism.
A 50 yr old female virgin just sounds more like trouble than she is worth.You could easily be a dirt bag and be a virgin because your standards are too high.
That is that is tru but than that is not a balanced or controlled person and most people will pass on that person…… Ok my only example i can think of Is Jason. I know 😂Just stick wit me.. we all know Jason is not a Virgin. However imagine if he was I don’t think many of would have a problem with it because he shows a level mastery in all other aspects of his life.. some might say Jason is a dirt bag or have high standards or that he’s harsh. But for us who really listen to him know that he’s reasonable and fair And it’s that discipline that makes him more appealing to the opposite sex regardless of his sexual status. You will know that he’s not a virgin because the women don’t want him but because he absolutely chooses to be. This woman here is most certainly a virgin because nobody wants her end of storyYou could easily be a dirt bag and be a virgin because your standards are too high.
Honestly, I bet she is a hell of a lot easier to deal with than a 21 year old with 3 baby daddies. She's basically a nun and her discipline is worthy of honor and respect. Shout out to her parents!View: https://youtu.be/wthU7pqn3To
She is waiting for marriage and hasn’t got married in all this time.
How much you wanna bet she is difficult AF to deal with?
I met a 30 year old virgin and she cherished that shit like it was the ark of the covenant.
At a certain point they put so much premium on the virginity and be much more than the market can support.
The want you to jump through hoop after hoop because to them they are giving away something near and dear not realizing that in the market it’s just another vagina that’s in oversupply.
At the end of the day we don’t know why she’s a virgin but her inability to find a suitable mate in such a long stretch of time is indicative of maybe some interpersonal dysfunction.That is that is tru but than that is not a balanced or controlled person and most people will pass on that person…… Ok my only example i can think of Is Jason. I know 😂Just stick wit me.. we all know Jason is not a Virgin. However imagine if he was I don’t think many of would have a problem with it because he shows a level mastery in all other aspects of his life.. some might say Jason is a dirt bag or have high standards or that he’s harsh. But for us who really listen to him know that he’s reasonable and fair And it’s that discipline that makes him more appealing to the opposite sex regardless of his sexual status. You will know that he’s not a virgin because the women don’t want him but because he absolutely chooses to be. This woman here is most certainly a virgin because nobody wants her end of story
Is it discipline though? It could also be stubbornness which is not a praiseworthy characteristic.Honestly, I bet she is a hell of a lot easier to deal with than a 21 year old with 3 baby daddies. She's basically a nun and her discipline is worthy of honor and respect. Shout out to her parents!
Man your avatar is so dope. I love it!Honestly, I bet she is a hell of a lot easier to deal with than a 21 year old with 3 baby daddies. She's basically a nun and her discipline is worthy of honor and respect. Shout out to her parents!
She stated that she was raised in a strict house hold and that she is standing on her religious beliefs---plus she didn't take credit for it, she gave all the glory to God. Seems like she is clear on and disciplined in her practice, in my opinion, that is praiseworthy. There aren't many people who can claim to have sustatined that level of integrity for 50 years at anything.At the end of the day we don’t know why she’s a virgin but her inability to find a suitable mate in such a long stretch of time is indicative of maybe some interpersonal dysfunction.
Is it discipline though? It could also be stubbornness which is not a praiseworthy characteristic.
If her body was as solid as her beliefs are than I don’t think she would have been a virgin as long as she has.She stated that she was raised in a strict house hold and that she is standing on her religious beliefs---plus she didn't take credit for it, she gave all the glory to God. Seems like she is clear on and disciplined in her practice, in my opinion, that is praiseworthy. There aren't many people who can claim to have sustatined that level of integrity for 50 years at anything.
It's possible. I've two friends that miraculously conceived at 60 years old & wanted me to go along with them. 😂 "HELL TO DA NAW, NAW, NAW" was my reply! 🤣🤣I am fine with women saving themselves for marriage but 50? Can she even have children at this point?
Most women get married between the ages of 22 and 32. With a smaller percentage getting married 33 to 43. I think the ship has sailed. Very few women get married after 44 if they have never been married.
Why??? Who TF wants a dried out prune of a cookie that can't even have kids? FOH All this chic is good for is being a childless cum receptacle. Sorry I am NOT trying to be vile, I would like to know what made to standup and voice that for the world to hear.View: https://youtu.be/wthU7pqn3To
She is waiting for marriage and hasn’t got married in all this time.
How much you wanna bet she is difficult AF to deal with?
I met a 30 year old virgin and she cherished that shit like it was the ark of the covenant.
At a certain point they put so much premium on the virginity and be much more than the market can support.
The want you to jump through hoop after hoop because to them they are giving away something near and dear not realizing that in the market it’s just another vagina that’s in oversupply.
Ha! I GOTTA use that one. ROTFLMAOthe juice is not worth the squeeze for those exact reasons. it's like driving on a muddy, dirt road uphill in a Kia.
If I look at it from a monastic/asceticism point of reference then I absolutely agree. It’s no different than being a monk.She stated that she was raised in a strict house hold and that she is standing on her religious beliefs---plus she didn't take credit for it, she gave all the glory to God. Seems like she is clear on and disciplined in her practice, in my opinion, that is praiseworthy. There aren't many people who can claim to have sustatined that level of integrity for 50 years at anything.
I have to say that is VERY impressive but I am with you 100%. I would not want to be running around after a toddler in my 60s, at least not full-time! I am sure having children later in life keeps you young but it has to be painful.It's possible. I've two friends that miraculously conceived at 60 years old & wanted me to go along with them. 😂 "HELL TO DA NAW, NAW, NAW" was my reply! 🤣🤣
Painful, time consuming, nearly impossible to keep up with them, especially if there's errands or working from home.I have to say that is VERY impressive but I am with you 100%. I would not want to be running around after a toddler in my 60s, at least not full-time! I am sure having children later in life keeps you young but it has to be painful.
I'm at a loss for words, and I just can't stop laughing! Both the video and your post have me laughing so hard that I'm in tears and am in dire need of a tissue! I do believe that it is okay to wait until marriage before having any sexual relations, but there comes a point in life that you need to put yourself out there, try to find your compatible person. I find it to be rather extraordinary that this 50-year-old woman has never had any type of sexual relationship, nor has she had any sex toys in her lifetime. I mean, kudos to her, but once you cross that 50-year-old mark without any foreplay you may have some dust in there. I could be wrong, just my personal opinion lol.View: https://youtu.be/wthU7pqn3To
She is waiting for marriage and hasn’t got married in all this time.
How much you wanna bet she is difficult AF to deal with?
I met a 30 year old virgin and she cherished that shit like it was the ark of the covenant.
At a certain point they put so much premium on the virginity and be much more than the market can support.
The want you to jump through hoop after hoop because to them they are giving away something near and dear not realizing that in the market it’s just another vagina that’s in oversupply.
I call them "COOCHIE COBWEBS". 🤷🏽♀️🤣I'm at a loss for words, and I just can't stop laughing! Both the video and your post have me laughing so hard that I'm in tears and am in dire need of a tissue! I do believe that it is okay to wait until marriage before having any sexual relations, but there comes a point in life that you need to put yourself out there, try to find your compatible person. I find it to be rather extraordinary that this 50-year-old woman has never had any type of sexual relationship, nor has she had any sex toys in her lifetime. I mean, kudos to her, but once you cross that 50-year-old mark without any foreplay you may have some dust in there. I could be wrong, just my personal opinion lol.
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