Yes I agree with you. You're always going to have a group of women who sell themselves, but those women will be 10 to 100 men who visit them in the brothels, now they are websites. Men have made it clear that they publicly enjoy and want this. But women should always be discreet about what we do, from our sex lives to our recipe books. It's just part of being a woman in my opinion. If you are okay being a sex worker, that's fine, and maybe a day laborer will be with you when you retire, and you have to be okay with that. But if you want more than the laborer, you can not behave that way.
One problem is that women will accept the men that are known to frequent the brothels. We have to set standards are well for ourselves and daughters. But women think that it's okay for men to behave that way, I'm guilty of that myself. Being older, I see things differently now. Men must practice discretion as well, but a lot do not.
I agree that men are visual, but women are too. Most people want attractive mates and most people want to be attractive. But women do not hold men to attractive standards. We actually value the opposite of what they value in us. We pretend older men are attractive, when they are obviously not as attractive as younger men. We need to support younger men in their endeavors and leave the older men to choose from the older women whose time they wasted. The average 45 year old man should not have access to 20 or even 30 year old women, but for some reason, even though women make their own money now, still hold onto that older man are better scheme. That may have been true at one time, but in my experience, it is actually better to build with a man your own age or even younger to have more in common and frankly, more control over the situation. I think women need an awakening. We can call men leaders all day and talk about how we reasons to what they want, but if women aren't getting anything much out of the situation, none of that matters. We need to reevaluate things, because things are changing and we need to do better as women. These men will have you being a sex kitten until you're 35, then you wake up and they tell you that you're not the woman they really desire. Women need to stop this madness