So true due to the simple fact that white women will preach the virtues of being modern women but then get right back home and be submissive to her man. Our women have fell for the ookie doke and it makes sense in the context of mass incarceration, resource deprivation, and white daddy being the only way out that they saw.
I was married twice, first time at age 21, too young! We were from two different worlds and I just wanted to be married .. we had a child together.. it was horrible… but co-parenting made us best friends.. go figure. Oh, I couldn’t deal with the drugs and alcohol. 2nd time, I tried to be a good Christian wife, he cheated several times, was an alcoholic who abused us.. we had one child together. I just didn’t really know him.. he had demons.. unknown demons.. I’m not bashing my husbands but I thought marriage was a magical thing.. I was very naive and I think a lot of young women approach relationships with men in a fantasy type of way and assumptions run wild with some of us. I’ve learned my lessons. I agree 1000% with Mrs. Obama! and the content creator..
You look serious bruh...I bet you said "I don't play around with my bread" at least 100x in your life.
You are right brother. That's why the Bible instructs us to love our wives as we love ourselves. It even goes as far as to say love her as if she is your own flesh since no man that lives hates his own flesh. Very deep.
Thanks for the feedback bro. The bible is definitely coded with esoteric truths. I love that you mentioned it.
I can't stand the Nobama's. She clearly didn't want a solid FBA/ADOS male that is why she picked him and Barry didnt date black women, she was his first. And why didn't she say anything but her oldest child shacking up with a carrot nose Brad playing #SlavePlay Sexercizes under the same GD roof.
So that's why i should get married?
Standing together & blasting WS in their devilish faces is great motivation for marriage, in my opinion sir!
I blast WS devils as a bachelor lol.
Totally understood bro, but two can blast more than one, depending on the tools & skill.
My adult children & adult grandson could be weapons instructors, if they wanted to be. Their knowledge will be passed on & down to all they know, because of my grandparents & parents passing knowledge to me. Single or married, generations need the knowledge, regardless.
2 people are twice as likely to see trouble coming and if worse comes to worse, there can be a witness and an advocate in the courtroom (whether you fall or the enemy falls) giving pause to other white supremacist TERRORIST CELLS. Yes, that’s where we are right now. You NEVER face an enemy alone except as a last resort. As a black American, you have the whole world in your face and looking you up and down, looking for a weakness from cradle to grave. Being alone is a weakness. This is about survival. If you choose not to team up, that’s on you, bruh. 🤷🏾♂️ (You can probably tell I like Professor Black Truth)
I never wanted to get married. NEVER saw it in the cards for myself. But I was blessed to meet a King that changed that for me. 10 years and still kicking. When you find the one you'll know.
I can agree with that sentiment to a certain extent. America does approach marriage in a business like manner, but that does not mean you allow them to control your marriage. You have to have your own understanding of how you want your marriage to operate, have your own set of rules and regulations.
Yes lawd! I wouldn't have it any other way! My King and I love blasting WS together. It's our favorite pastime.
You don't have to have paperwork saying that you're married either. He's husband & you're wife in your hearts, mind, soul & body, you're married.I never wanted to get married. NEVER saw it in the cards for myself. But I was blessed to meet a King that changed that for me. 10 years and still kicking. When you find the one you'll know.
I can agree with that sentiment to a certain extent. America does approach marriage in a business like manner, but that does not mean you allow them to control your marriage. You have to have your own understanding of how you want your marriage to operate, have your own set of rules and regulations.
Yes lawd! I wouldn't have it any other way! My King and I love blasting WS together. It's our favorite pastime.
Good point. I was going to say it helps with keeping and transferring resources though. Better and easier to file taxes. Many resources pass automatically upon death without too much pain in the ass. However, I think the alphabets who couldn’t marry till recently got a lot of laws passed to make things easier for people not married on paper.
This is true. We were married in our hearts. The paperwork was just a formality. It is definitely important for assets and children.
I think this only works if both parties are truly loyal to each other. Unfortunately I have heard people say this in an effort to "not complicate our relationship" but they both cheat on each other and have children with other people. At that point I'm like some people want to avoid the responsibility that comes with the paperwork but want all the perks of the relationship. And even if one truly believes this frame of thought I think you're still doing a disservice to the children when it comes to generational wealth building and transfer.
Quite different when all your children are grown, provided for & your 50+, just wanting a life partner.
I'm in a relationship where we are growing together.
