What 🫣I dunnno how valid marriage advice is from either of the Obamas. From what I've heard, I suspect it ain't your typical arrangement.
You look serious bruh...I bet you said "I don't play around with my bread" at least 100x in your life.
Sounds like they know what works for them.I dunnno how valid marriage advice is from either of the Obamas. From what I've heard, I suspect it ain't your typical arrangement.
You are right brother. That's why the Bible instructs us to love our wives as we love ourselves. It even goes as far as to say love her as if she is your own flesh since no man that lives hates his own flesh. Very deep.I think there are two sides to this. One side is man or man-kind always wants to monetize things; thus, we have the business contract (fake) side of the marriage: fancy dress, hat, ring, etc. All of this cost money. What happens when it doesn't work out? Everything is split half and half which costs more money-everyone is making money off of your "marriage." It was always a business contract.
The other side to this is more spiritual in nature. "God" marries you two. Within all of us are masculine and feminine. Empathy, Love, Compassion, etc. are feminine emotions while other emotions are masculine. Left hemisphere of the brain is masculine while the right side is feminine. So her or he reflects you outwardly. She is you and you are her. You are married to yourself. That is true marriage. Hey, just my opinion. Lol!
Thanks for the feedback bro. The bible is definitely coded with esoteric truths. I love that you mentioned it.You are right brother. That's why the Bible instructs us to love our wives as we love ourselves. It even goes as far as to say love her as if she is your own flesh since no man that lives hates his own flesh. Very deep.
I can't stand the Nobama's. She clearly didn't want a solid FBA/ADOS male that is why she picked him and Barry didnt date black women, she was his first. And why didn't she say anything but her oldest child shacking up with a carrot nose Brad playing #SlavePlay Sexercizes under the same GD roof.I say, if it’s true love, yes. True love is damn, I can’t get enough of this person, we are super compatible and have each other’s back, period. No outside voices influencing the other, etc.
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So that's why i should get married?Yeah, do your own thing folks. The Timothy Loehmanns and Amber Guygers are depending on no one riding for you. 🤷🏾♂️
The concept of marriage is great. However, American marriage (like many other places) is a business. In Other countries, marriage is about growing in wealth for either side but the goal is both sides. In America, the business is a little different. It’s both side and the government. The third side always wins so it’s pushes for chaos.
Standing together & blasting WS in their devilish faces is great motivation for marriage, in my opinion sir!So that's why i should get married?
Getting murdered by race soldiers is not a good motivation for marriage sir
I blast WS devils as a bachelor lol.Standing together & blasting WS in their devilish faces is great motivation for marriage, in my opinion sir!
Totally understood bro, but two can blast more than one, depending on the tools & skill.I blast WS devils as a bachelor lol.
I understand the overall point but marriage has never appealed to me for the reasons stated by It’s me Magic
My adult children & adult grandson could be weapons instructors, if they wanted to be. Their knowledge will be passed on & down to all they know, because of my grandparents & parents passing knowledge to me. Single or married, generations need the knowledge, regardless.Totally understood bro, but two can blast more than one, depending on the tools & skill.
2 people are twice as likely to see trouble coming and if worse comes to worse, there can be a witness and an advocate in the courtroom (whether you fall or the enemy falls) giving pause to other white supremacist TERRORIST CELLS. Yes, that’s where we are right now. You NEVER face an enemy alone except as a last resort. As a black American, you have the whole world in your face and looking you up and down, looking for a weakness from cradle to grave. Being alone is a weakness. This is about survival. If you choose not to team up, that’s on you, bruh. 🤷🏾♂️ (You can probably tell I like Professor Black Truth)Totally understood bro, but two can blast more than one, depending on the tools & skill.
I never wanted to get married. NEVER saw it in the cards for myself. But I was blessed to meet a King that changed that for me. 10 years and still kicking. When you find the one you'll know.I am still trying to find the "One", the woman I want to live the rest of my life with, while she wants to live the rest of her life with me. I was never too into the idea of marriage, but I think that all changes when you meet someone you truly want to be with. Because at that point, why not get married right?
For me, I need to find love first, once I do, I think it'll be easy to decide on marriage or not.
I can agree with that sentiment to a certain extent. America does approach marriage in a business like manner, but that does not mean you allow them to control your marriage. You have to have your own understanding of how you want your marriage to operate, have your own set of rules and regulations.The concept of marriage is great. However, American marriage (like many other places) is a business. In Other countries, marriage is about growing in wealth for either side but the goal is both sides. In America, the business is a little different. It’s both side and the government. The third side always wins so it’s pushes for chaos.
Yes lawd! I wouldn't have it any other way! My King and I love blasting WS together. It's our favorite pastime.Totally understood bro, but two can blast more than one, depending on the tools & skill.
You don't have to have paperwork saying that you're married either. He's husband & you're wife in your hearts, mind, soul & body, you're married.I never wanted to get married. NEVER saw it in the cards for myself. But I was blessed to meet a King that changed that for me. 10 years and still kicking. When you find the one you'll know.
I can agree with that sentiment to a certain extent. America does approach marriage in a business like manner, but that does not mean you allow them to control your marriage. You have to have your own understanding of how you want your marriage to operate, have your own set of rules and regulations.
Yes lawd! I wouldn't have it any other way! My King and I love blasting WS together. It's our favorite pastime.![]()
Good point. I was going to say it helps with keeping and transferring resources though. Better and easier to file taxes. Many resources pass automatically upon death without too much pain in the ass. However, I think the alphabets who couldn’t marry till recently got a lot of laws passed to make things easier for people not married on paper.You don't have to have paperwork saying that you're married either. He's husband & you're wife in your hearts, mind, soul & body, you're married.
This is true. We were married in our hearts. The paperwork was just a formality. It is definitely important for assets and children.You don't have to have paperwork saying that you're married either. He's husband & you're wife in your hearts, mind, soul & body, you're married.
☝🏽 ThisYou don't have to have paperwork saying that you're married either. He's husband & you're wife in your hearts, mind, soul & body, you're married.
I think this only works if both parties are truly loyal to each other. Unfortunately I have heard people say this in an effort to "not complicate our relationship" but they both cheat on each other and have children with other people. At that point I'm like some people want to avoid the responsibility that comes with the paperwork but want all the perks of the relationship. And even if one truly believes this frame of thought I think you're still doing a disservice to the children when it comes to generational wealth building and transfer.You don't have to have paperwork saying that you're married either. He's husband & you're wife in your hearts, mind, soul & body, you're married.
Quite different when all your children are grown, provided for & your 50+, just wanting a life partner.I think this only works if both parties are truly loyal to each other. Unfortunately I have heard people say this in an effort to "not complicate our relationship" but they both cheat on each other and have children with other people. At that point I'm like some people want to avoid the responsibility that comes with the paperwork but want all the perks of the relationship. And even if one truly believes this frame of thought I think you're still doing a disservice to the children when it comes to generational wealth building and transfer.
Different perspective. Much respect.Quite different when all your children are grown, provided for & your 50+, just wanting a life partner.
Been there done that twice.....not doing it again....I say, if it’s true love, yes. True love is damn, I can’t get enough of this person, we are super compatible and have each other’s back, period. No outside voices influencing the other, etc.
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I'm in a relationship where we are growing together.I think there is a reality that we haven’t accepted because we only know of one form of marriage but relationships run their course and when we look at African societies before Abrahamic religion we see that divorce was possible because that is a reality. Marriage without divorce is a Eurasian concept, when Greeks established their first laws (Solon) they outlawed polygamy and divorce. Ethiopia still has marriages that can be renewed after a year, as long they aren’t christian. I think our disappointment is based on our expectations of marriage through what society shows us. I think that kind of anxiety only works against us because we stress more about the union itself and how it’s “supposed to be” rather than focusing on the relationship itself where people can grow together.