Yeah you will always have people hating you, your family, and anyone you associate with no matter what you do and this doesn't just go away.This too. I don't want to be the one responsible for making the change either. You have to make these decisions that many will hate. Even if you're making a decision you think to be right, others will find a way to hate it. I also don't want half of the people in the state/country/world to hate me either, because it's as if most politicians are 50/50 on the popular scale. Some will like them, while others hate them. I can't handle that pressure.