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I saw this floating around… so who pays?

One kid max and the child has to be 5 or older. That’s enough time for the child to have a solid relationship with each parent, and hopefully enough time for the parents to be over each other. I just want to avoid confusion and/or drama.

I was asked this question today so now I want to know your response. I climbed the Dunn’s waterfall in Jamaica! I slipped on the rocks about 19 times but I made it to the top! It was fun, I would do it again.

The question, "what do you bring to the table?" has been stirring up a lot of controversy lately. What would you say if someone asked you that question? I've actually been asked that before.... Boy bye! No one should have to ask this question if they're having real conversations. But some...

Just the water in Long Beach. I’m choosy.

Oh gosh. Unnecessary.

I don’t believe in it. If they are the right person then you’ll figure out a way to make it the right time. Some things are just not meant to be.

“A lot of people like to do the time but don't like to do the work.” I like that.

Yes, anywhere in public where we can talk is ideal. Definitely not the movies, a concert, dancing or anything like that. Those are fun dates while in a relationship, though but you can’t really have a conversation. I like dinner, happy hour, picnics (anything with food lol!).

Tracee Ellis Ross is the only one who comes to mind right now. She’s funny, bubbly, outgoing, awkward.. lol

Definitely agree with Monie Love. We need a balance. In the 90s we had Queen Latifah and Lil’ Kim, Lauryn Hill and Foxy Brown, etc. We were able to choose who we wanted to listen to. I saw another poster bring up Rhapsody and I was going to mention her as well. She’s dope but unfortunately the...

I can relate. But I realized relationships are about honestly and vulnerability, and we choose to work it our or walk away. I used to leave quickly, but now I communicate my needs and set boundaries first. And if things still don’t work then their loss.

I only like pet names from my man. If a guy called me “baby” too quickly in the past it was an immediate turn off. Most of the time they are smooth talkers or don’t remember your real name. Red flag 🚩

I’m glad to see you’re doing the work. Most anxious and avoidant attachment styles are attracted to each other. What style do you think you identify with? I used to be very avoidant and a little anxious (what a combo 😬) but I’ve been doing the work and I’m leaning more into the secure attachment...

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“This whole “anybody but Trump” thing ain’t really working out too well.” Ha!

Absolutely a woman should take care of the household if the man pays all of the bills. He would do his job and I would do mine…cooking, cleaning, taking care of the children is definitely a job. I’m not sure I could live that life since I’m used to staying productive and creative but I might not...

Most of my friendships are between 15-20 years long. Granted, I don’t talk to some of them as much as I used to but we still keep in touch and check in every few months. We’ve known each other since grade school or college. My longest friendship goes back about 25 years. People change and...

Yep! I saw another side of her

I love going to weddings, but being in a wedding is a different story. I was the maid of honor at my friend's wedding and I was stressed out like I was the one getting married! There was so much planning which is not my thing...but it was beautiful in the end.