Brotha Chris, maybe you can answer my question.
If gays hate women & lesbians hate men, why are they hell bent on being whom they hate?
A question I've always had, but NEVER received an answer or explanation, even on this platform. 🤷🏽♀️
Let's be perfectly clear, I'm NOT curious about the lifestyle, just NEVER understood the logic.
It's like more most of the gays and lesbians don't want to actually be the opposite sex, but they want to
be like the opposite sex in many ways and imitate the opposite sex with certain things.
Sort of like how
a lot whites and non-Blacks want to get spray tans, big butts, thicker lips, Black hairstyles, Black style of dress and want to be "down" and "Black" to be cute until it's actually time to be
Black. Except men are not generally oppressed unless they are Black. Women, however, are the most vulnerable of the 2 sexes / genders for obvious reasons.
Gay males, even the more physically weak and skinny, limpy ones, are still male and have male privileges and advantages that females don't have. They strongly love men and they generally love being male. Some have a fetish for males who look like, present as, dress like, and/or identify as women.
However, most gay males love anal and love referring to their booties as manholes, man pussies, bussies, cherries, etc and in some cases will go far as to damage their bootyholes so their bootyholes can look more like female vaginas. It doesn't matter how masculine or feminine they are. There are plenty of masculine bottoms and there are feminine tops too. Then you got males that switch positions, they are called verses. They subscribe to different tribes like bears, jocks, etc like they're in some animal kingdom or some shit.
They love the benefits of being male, having high sex drives and the easy access to sex with other horny gay / bi males because of it, so they don't want to be women and in many cases will look down on and talk shit about and toward women like a lot of ain't shit straight dudes will. If anything, however, too many of them
want to compete with us, resent or hate us 'cause they ain't us, suck energy and emotional labor from us, and/or over-exert or have their "authority" over us. See fashion designers, certain gay "friends" or former ones, hairstylists, etc.
You have feminine males that imitate females and our mannerisms. Too many males (even masculine and non-femme ones) have a gay face, gay lisp, or talk with a feminine flare in some way shape or form. Many if not most have female friends and they try to be "one of the girls" or the male company (usually at the same time). You got many gay males that have no problem fighting or putting their hands on women because they see themselves as something like a woman (or one of the girls) on a subconscious level at least. Many of them also love to spread rumors and start drama because it gives them life and in some causes opportunity for some dick or whatever.
So yeah, they don't to be women with "ugly, fishy, smelly, bloody pussies."
Some of them barf in their own mouth and quake in disgust and fear at the thought of vaginas and sex with a woman, or a male "going straight" for a woman. And some even claim to want to "kill" themselves if they were forced to sleep with women and/or deal with women and are happily gay. However, too many of them
still resent and hate on us because while they try to be like us in many ways, they
still ain't us, if that makes sense.
I bet many of them also hate and resent us because they remembered how they were pressured by society and others to "give women a chance" and to "be straight" when they were struggling with their sexuality, and therefore are traumatized because of it and wrongfully take their anger and frustration out of us women. An act of rebellion in their minds to destroy and wash away the "psychological rape."
As for lesbians, many of them are actually bisexual women with or without a preference for punani. Exclusively gay goldstar lesbians who don't care for dick at all do exist however. There are also a couple of bizarre, outlier stories of women who are mostly lesbians and are like 95-99% gay, but they end up finding the 1 guy they genuinely fell in love with and they marry him (although she still needs her punani fix and the husband will likely watch or join in threesomes).
A lot bisexual "lesbians" claim to be lesbians to appeal to other women and while they genuinely do love punani, they usually overcompensate in their behavior in order to cover up the fact that they have an inkling for dick too (at least sometimes) and not to appear too vulnerable. They are usually butch, AG, or soft butch.
There are also some bisexual "lesbians" that become "lesbian" in college and shit because it's the cool thing to do, or they become "lesbian" or date other women because they got out of in a bad relationship with a guy and they "need a break from men" or they're "done with men altogether." They usually have a preference for dick and are much more likely to settle down with men later in life, especially if they had history with men before their "lesbian" phase(s). When Drake, The Weeknd, and other artists are talking about "lesbians" and girls liking girls in their songs and videos, they're actually talking about these kind of "lesbians" because not only they find them hot, but they also feel they can "win them back."
Too many actual lesbians and bisexual women who lean lesbian (and are often butch, AGs, soft butch) usually love these kinds of girls too, but they end up getting their hearts broken and in their feelings when these girls "go straight" and don't look back. It really pisses them the fuck off and crushes their spirits and they will often fight with, beat up, or in more severe cases kill their girlfriend because of it.
And sadly, a lot lesbian relationships have domestic violence problems in general, including many of the ones I personally know/knew about. The more masculine lesbians tend to have some insecurity with their womanhood and not being taken as seriously like the men are as well. They know they are not male and don't actually want to be male in most cases even when bragging about their dildos and such. They always hated dresses, skirts, girly clothes, etc even when they were younger. Some of them don't mind a little lipstick or lip gloss, but most of them do. Many of them love the power and respect males have in this society and they want that for themselves. They also want to be able to protect themselves and their partners like men can and don't want to be vulnerable like straight women are. I have seen and heard stories about women who like women (even butch ones) getting wrongfully attacked or correctively raped by deranged insecure males that feel threatened by these women's sexuality.
Some of them hate men or act wishy washy with dudes, but not all. They usually want to be "one of the (honorary) guys" in a group of straight dudes and they usually get along well with male company as long as the guys aren't hitting on them. Albeit, they see these guys as competition for the girls they want too, but will usually try to be friendly about it until they find the girl they like and will usually fight like hell to keep her.
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couple of the lesbians / bi women also probably felt they couldn't compete as a straight woman and had an inkling for girls anyway, so went to lesbian / bi route.
Lesbians and bisexual women often get frustrated with relationships and dating because if you exclude the bisexual women like Fergie and Megan Fox who have a preference for dick and marriage with men, they actually have a very small dating pool. They are actually more gay males than lesbians in fact. Also, too many butch / soft butch lesbians are being convinced to transition into men now.
When actress Ellen Page recently came out as Elliot Page the non-binary transgender guy (makes no sense btw), many lesbians were very disappointed and upset with that because to them it's like damn, all of the lesbians are disappearing or opting out of womanhood altogether and they are left with fewer options, predatory straight couples that want a lesbian women for their threesomes, non-binary males and trans"lesbians" / transbians (transwomen who are lesbians, basically straight males in dresses), fickle women who are confused with their sexuality, bisexual women (many lesbians don't like bisexual women as they believe and fear they might leave them for dick, which is what happened to Ellen Degeneres before), etc.
I know I'm long-winded as fuck again, but I'm horrible at trying to condense my thoughts. My mind is too analytical.
The LGBT has a lot toxicity, insecurity, hangups and infighting.
